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  • pauletruth
    pauletruth Posts: 1,133 Forumite
    well in my case i would never want anything from him. poisoned thoughts. he never thought of me in life and why eould you want that changed. much better to just get on life and ignore it. it will be best for you.
  • AMILLIONDOLLARS
    AMILLIONDOLLARS Posts: 2,299 Forumite
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    edited 9 April 2014 at 3:15PM
    pauletruth wrote: »
    well in my case i would never want anything from him. poisoned thoughts. he never thought of me in life and why eould you want that changed. much better to just get on life and ignore it. it will be best for you.

    Because..

    Forgiveness is a wonderful thing, it sets you free. Why live your life by someone else's standards? His father gave him the greatest gift, LIFE. He can acknowledge this and enjoy of that this entails.

    By the sounds of things he has a very caring and wonderful partner and in time he will have children who he will cherish having learnt the valuable lesson of what abandonment means (no amount of money can buy that). From the action of the Father future generations in this family will benefit and be more caring and considerate towards each other, furthermore, they will know where they have come from, who are in their genes. Why would anyone one want to take that away from them?

    Never forget the past it always helps in shaping your future. Say good bye, hold your head up high, much respect.

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