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Wedding Cancelled .... being taken to court!

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  • susancs
    susancs Posts: 3,888 Forumite
    Flugelhorn wrote: »
    Few years down the line you might have been delighted to pay much, much more to be shot of the pair of them...

    It will cause you far less stress to just pay it, sell some gifts etc if needed and move on - otherwise this will just drag on and cause more problems

    OP I am sorry to read about your situation, but I agree with the above poster as it seems you have had a lucky escape from your ex and his family and paying the £500 would ensure you never have to see them again hopefully.
  • Bollotom
    Bollotom Posts: 957 Forumite
    500 Posts
    Me? I'd pay up and move on while letting everyone know how poor they were to want you to pay what should have been a gift to their son. Lucky escape I think.
  • Maci
    Maci Posts: 3 Newbie
    Many thanks to all who offered advice.

    I will be paying as cant afford to have a court judgment issued against me and possibly affecting my credit history.

    For those inquiring ... he did get his ring back. I was never keeping it even after he threatened to break into my house. Trust me this was not a nice guy and I didnt see his true colours until the end.
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