Threatened at work by a customer

Charityworker

No I haven't. Perhaps I will ask for that tomorrow.

Bantex_2

In what way is this person a customer?

ohreally

Bantex wrote: »

In what way is this person a customer?

This, coupled with your employers on-going inability to sort out concerns suggests they are letting you down badly. Are they competent to be operating this service? Are management even qualified?

Denning.

Valli wrote: »

Since the OP is being threatened and harrassed she is a victim of crime.

Harassed, yes, threatened? hard sale from what they have posted.

Speak to your employer, ring the police and ask them to have a word with the gentleman to stay away from you. If they don't take action, complain.

If he doesn't stop speak to your council about attaining a restraining order.

Valli

Denning. wrote: »

Harassed, yes, threatened? hard sale from what they have posted.

OP used the word threatened - both in the OP and in the thread title. Harrassed was 'my' word!

Charityworker wrote: »

Anyway, the father of the person accusing has been into where I work 5 times and threatened and verbally abused me for 'advocating sex offences'.

Denning.

Valli wrote: »

OP used the word threatened - both in the OP and in the thread title. Harrassed was 'my' word!

I know it is what she used, but her examples, which it would be reasonable to be the worst examples, don't include any threatening behaviour. 'I'm going to tell on you' isn't threatening behaviour.

EmmaHerts

Charityworker- thank you for doing such a difficult job. We as a society need people like you who are willing and able to help those who need it.

Valli

Denning. wrote: »

I know it is what she used, but her examples, which it would be reasonable to be the worst examples, don't include any threatening behaviour. 'I'm going to tell on you' isn't threatening behaviour.

Maybe the OP has been circumspect about the threats; maybe they're not as menacing as 'threatening' implies. Possibly she's being careful in what she is posting as it's an ongoing case.

But you make a fair point.

Nevertheless the fact that he's in there 'discussing' this case with her at all is not acceptable.

mattcanary

fruitedeli wrote: »

When a father does something like this to someone not directly involved, it kind of says OP's client is indeed a rapist. OP should show some understanding instead of trying to make this father to be some sort of violent person, just for threatening to go to the daily mail.

How could he be 100% sure one way or the other (unless heactually saw any rape being committed)?

getmore4less

Report it to the court, probably through defence lawyer, get an injunction.