OR Interview today 11.00am!!!

JulesJay

That is exactly how I felt Claire and it is very difficult to stop yourself from doing it.

It is fear of the unknown which brings out the paranoia - or it certainly did with me.

Dont ever feel silly about the way you feel, we all cope with things in different ways, and I am sure there is not one of us out there who did not feel the way you do now.

Remember you haven't done anything wrong.

It might be a good idea to start your own thread about the figures for your SOA so the more knowledgeable guys out there can give you some advice on that.

So chin up hun, you will get there, and we will all be here to help :A

Jules x

PixiePie

ClaireLR wrote: »

Jules thank you for that lovely post.

Sometimes I do wonder if I somehow stress myself out by sitting thinking about things to much. ........ I (my rational side) feels that I'm getting this all out of proportion IYKWIM.

Sweetie - you and me both
But we will look back I am sure when the deed is done and the OR call finished and think 'you know what, even if that was horrid, it wasn't half as bad as I was expecting.'

At the moment I am trying to fight towards raising the fee, whilst waiting for the NDL info to come and a load of things to come for the business so that I can maybe get all the info together for OH to approach bank for a different Gov type of funding I just found out about

Despite putting 1 lb on apparently (think my body has hit starvation levels) despite not eating anything (virtually literally), am feeling very positive right now - my OH is so so so lovely - he just secretly did a WoW subscription for a month for me, so I can play a little - totally sweet of him as I have been feeling down about the fact we have nothing fun in our lives right now, so yeah! He is lovely.
Anyway sorry to waffle - original point, I am totally stressing about it too, but hey - just remember, they're not allowed to take us out into the High Street and whilst beating us with a big stick shout 'Everyone! Look at the loser who's awful with money and XK in debt!! Look, look how pants they are, evil person, evil.....'. So if they don't do that, what can they do, eh? (and even if they are a little sniffy, just come on here and tell us and we'll all give you a virtual hug )

JulesJay

Well said PixiePie

Hope you and Claire are doing okay this rainy morning!

Jules x :j

ClaireLR

Hi Jules,

Yes I'm feeling a little better this morning, dunno why nothings changed!

Funny how one day you can be stressed then the next not to bad.

Thanks to you and Pixie for your kind words. X