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Is it human to grab a fully grown cat by its neck?

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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    You can stop cats sitting where they want to?? I never knew that... nor does my cat.
  • Shoshannah
    Shoshannah Posts: 667 Forumite
    Scruffing cats should be done as a last resort.

    It can be intimidating and the only way the cat can react is defensively.

    Do not lift a cat by its scruff as this can be painful (adult cats weight considerably more than kittens, obviously).

    It can be done, but only in cases where it would be unsafe for you or the cat to do otherwise.
  • Carer
    Carer Posts: 296 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    I find a small bottle of water does the trick nicely.

    I keep one near my desk and if any of my cats is feeling a bit "spikey" I shake the bottle and they miraculously disappear.

    Works great for getting them out from under the bed too (bedroom is a no pet zone so of course they take every opportunity to sneak in)
    Failing that, if I rustle a packet of dreamies they'll go anywhere I want :rotfl:
  • meritaten
    meritaten Posts: 24,158 Forumite
    I never pick up a full grown cat by the scruff of the neck. haven't you noticed how large a kittens head is compared to its body mass? a fully grown cat has a much larger body in comparison, and in my opinion picking them up by the scruff of the neck is going to hurt. and I have never found reason to do that.

    and yes, shaking the packet of dreamies brings them running!
  • calicocat
    calicocat Posts: 5,698 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Chutzpah Haggler
    Unless mine was about to do something or eat something dangerous for her I wouldn't pick her up by the scruff of the neck. As an adult I would imagine that would be pretty painful....and if I had to would put hand underneath to take the weight as someone else posted.


    Have you tried asking it to move....my cat is a complete swine for attacking, but often will move when asked to.....failing that get dreamies....or lick-e-lix....that should shift it el-pronto.
    Yep...still at it, working out how to retire early.:D....... Going to have to rethink that scenario as have been screwed over by the company. A work in progress.
  • koneko
    koneko Posts: 105 Forumite
    The only time I will ever scruff our cats is when we are clipping their claws as its the only way they will stay still, but they are laid on the floor when we do this so there is no weight being held on the neck.

    I would think that it would be ok to scruff the cat first while he is on the chair but then put your other hand under his back end to support his weight.
    If it doesn’t move, and it should, use WD-40. If it moves, and it shouldn’t, use duct tape!
  • Crisp_£_note
    Crisp_£_note Posts: 1,525 Forumite
    Just put something on the chair seat that way the cat cant sit there when your not! I agree though it would be easier to keep it a no go area altogether if its where you work in general. :)
    Failure is only someone elses judgement.
    Without change there would be no butterflies.
    If its important to you, you'll find a way - if not, you'll find an excuse ! ~ Easy to say when you take money out of the equation!
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