Dating someone - how would you deal with this situation?

LiveOnce

Well I called her out on it and let her know it was a bit rude and makes me not want see her anymore.

Sometimes I can't contain it within me if people are being unfair/rude. Don't know if that's a good thing or not.

tea_lover

What would I do? Find someone else.

Saturnalia

I'm sure I read exactly this OP a few months ago.

Is it the same OP and same girl?

dibuzz

He posted the same thing in December

paulineb_2

Saturnalia wrote: »

I'm sure I read exactly this OP a few months ago.

Is it the same OP and same girl?

Yes I think it is.

Pollycat

LiveOnce wrote: »

Well I called her out on it and let her know it was a bit rude and makes me not want see her anymore.

So what did she say?

Did she agree it was rude?
Was she apologetic?
Did she say it wouldn't happen again?
Did she say you are way down the totem pole in importance in her life, stuck behind her checking Facebook?

People do have different ideas of what is acceptable behaviour.
If she thinks it wasn't rude but you do (and I agree with you) you may find that other aspects of her personality don't fit with your idea of acceptable behaviour.

paulineb_2

Heres the previous thread

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4848829

paulineb_2

She seems to be really prone to getting the flu.

paulineb_2

LiveOnce wrote: »

Pollycat you're right I didn't have a concrete agreement but I was in the process of making one so I texted her.

She seemed to check Facebook quite often but never really replied to my message which I thought was a little harsh.

We've been seeing each other for a month and kissed a few times and always text each other (we both travel a lot on business) so there seemed to be interest there.

Although it doesnt seem to bother you making rude remarks about other people.

I was called out by you on two threads, personal comments were made to me both times and on one you referred to me as the ugliest person on MSE.

Perhaps you should have a think about the way you speak to other people when you are upset that people dont treat you very well.

kwmlondon

I was dating someone, kept getting cancellations so I just let it go off the boil and it kind of snuffed itself out coming to a natural end. Another guy I was seeing about the same time would cancel from time-to-time, as did I, then as time went by it got more serious and intense and as we both kind of got more committed at about the same rate it worked. That was about 4 years ago. We've been married since Dec-12 and it's going well. I'm very happy.