Small claims court help

simster69

gemmalou81 wrote: »

I have no problem with him keeping the items we purchased together but as they were purchased while we were together i don't see why i should pay for everything, the new car doesn't exist any more so why he brought that up I'm unsure, we were both well aware of the amounts of money we have spent or saved together over the years, if this wasn't the case he wouldn't have agreed to pay in the first place would he, the only reason I sought legal advise was I pay bills monthly and when his payment didn't go in I had the choice of paying the bills or feeding my children. Like I said earlier I have a mortgage and cards to pay so cannot afford to get myself into the missed payment cycle. He got himself a solicitor and I have agreed to go to mediation but what he wasn't aware was that all this will be brought up and dealt with while we will be there, he doesn't understand that both sides with be dealt with, he seems to think just because he's paying for it, the mediator will tell him he is right??! we will see what happens from here on in, thank you for at least reading both sides and giving an honest opinion as to the outcome of our situation once you have all the facts at least

The mediation is for contact?? and i'm more than happy to help with bills left behind but you seem to forget i have a house to run as well without the help of the benefits service your not interested in anything other than the suffering of a second party and anyone caught in between is collateral damage?

LilElvis

simster69 wrote: »

Thanks for the post i have no interest in arguing or using any forum on any site for this purpose like i have hopefully clarified on here this thread was designed to gather advice and at no time have i engaged anyone in any argument but like you said i think this process is better done elsewhere from this point.

Simster69 - did you forget writing this yesterday?

Go to your mediation and sort it out there!