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No buying unnecessary toiletries February 2014

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  • That's unbelievable Asset, someone without a job can't afford to buy them drinks:eek:

    Lots of UU for me today:
    Spa foot lotion
    Extracts pomegranate body butter
    Timotei Vivid Colour Conditioner

    Just found a glittery peppermint OPI handcream in an old bag, so that's another on the list
    Debt free and busy treating myself:)

    No more toiletries/make up until I've used what I've got stashed since Jan 2011, graduated October 2012. Restocked Dec 13..damn those sales
  • Returned the Botanics eye gel today without too much hassle, have the refund on a giftcard so going to hide that away for a while.

    But when in Boots... I have an IN to declare. Good Things Ultra Rich Creamy Scrub. My S&G scrub is feeling a little empty and this was on a clearance shelf for only £2.
    New graduate trying to get debt-free.
    Make £5/day challenge: August £84.08/155
    I owe £5400 (plus £
    34,000 Student Finance)

  • Sorry to hear of your dilemma Asset - ive nothing to add as im rubbish in these situations.


    UU

    sachet - estee lauder advanced night serum - WNBA too small a sample to justify repurchase.

    200ml TBS Coconut butter - WNBA I used quite a lot of coconut products in January and I think ive overindulged.

    200ml TBS Grapefruit butter - WBA one of my favourites.

    Ins
    You beauty box 3 items
    No more buying toiletries
  • kadison
    kadison Posts: 3,662 Forumite
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    asset2004 wrote: »
    Looking for some advice. As many of you on here know I was made redundant just before Christmas. I have not yet found a job and signing on at the job centre.
    I received a money gift from my colleagues recently, they asked if I wanted gift vouchers for anywhere in particular but I said I'd prefer the cash as then I can buy what I like (and hopefully find it discounted elsewhere). Anyway I am so disappointed by the paltry amount, in fact when I think how much money I have given to everyone elses collections over the years for weddings, engagements, special birthdays, baby collections etc I am quite upset.
    They asked me to come in and take them out for a drink, but TBH I don't want to spend a penny on them. A round will cost more than I was given :( How can I say no nicely?:o
    If I found a job it would be easy as I could say I was working but they know I've not found anything yet.

    TIA
    Catriona_P wrote: »
    Oh Asset that must suck. Hate it when people show their true colours. Hope you're ok. :(

    If you don't feel up to having a straight up confrontation, personally I would go for the time-honoured approach of 'yes we must meet up soon!' and then never set a date. Slowly stop contacting. I've had that done to me lots of times with ex-colleagues (but I swear I always give enough as a leaving gift!).

    Or go for dolly's approach. ;) Life's too short to spend it with horrible people.

    Oh you do that too do you? :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

    I have an old group of friends, some are still friends, some I wouldn't want to waste any time with as they're either boring or humourless, or both! So I go 'yes that'd be lovely' then make sure I'm always busy lol!

    I think it's a bliddy cheek to give you money as a 'leaving present' and then say you have to buy drinks with it! If they were asking you out FOR a drink, fine, but asking you to pay for theirs is unacceptable. I'd tell them something like above or just say you can't afford it, that should sort them out!

    Either way, they are earning and you aren't, you're not obliged to these people in any way whatever, so stand your ground.....and run away....fast!!! *pun intended*
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  • mcculloch29
    mcculloch29 Posts: 4,972 Forumite
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    Well... speechless.... what shallow nasty evil little $^$£B" your ex-colleagues are Asset. Go with everyone else's advice, don't spend a penny on them. Do you really want to waste a minute more of your life in the company of people like that?

    Think of all the nice things you could be doing that won't cost you as much, or anything, rather than spending valued time and precious pennies with those expletive leeches.

    A bit of an unexpected UU, the 50ml Rituals Yogi Flow Foaming Shower Gel I won. This only lasted 3 showers; I am quite frugal as I have a mahoosive shower puff that makes lashings of foam, so hmmm.

    WIB? No way, this worked out at over £1.50 a shower! I usually make a point of not spending more than £1 on my OS gels and creams. It was lovely, but it wasn't THAT lovely.
    I realise some of you probably spend a lot more, but OS stuff is so nice that I don't usually look further. This hasn't stopped me entering lots of competitions in the hope of winning stuff though.
    UUing a Rescue Oil as moisturiser at the moment to try and get shot of yet another little bottle. Very good stuff...
    Erma Bombeck, American writer: "If I had my life to live over again... I would have burned the pink candle, sculptured like a rose, that melted in storage." Don't keep things 'for best' - that day never comes. Use them and enjoy them now.
  • Another 2 UU's last night

    Lush Spaced Out Bath Bomb, WMBA....a nice fragrance but this one was a bit old so it wasn't as good

    Lush Candy Mountain Bubble Bar - I have a load more of these in the stash!

    Feb PP List

    1. [STRIKE]Clinique Dramatically Different Moisturizing Lotion +[/STRIKE]
    2. [STRIKE]Dove Go Fresh Pomegranate Shower Gel[/STRIKE]
    3. [STRIKE]Mac Mineralize Skin Finish Natural: Medium[/STRIKE]
    4. S&G Butter Yourself
    5. Miss Dior Perfume
    6. Sure Black Diamond Deodorant
    7. Clinique All About Eyes
    8. [STRIKE]Lush Spaced Out Bath Bomb[/STRIKE]
    9. [STRIKE]Lush Candy Mountain Bubble Bar[/STRIKE]
    10. Lush Angels Delight Soap
  • FizzWhizz
    FizzWhizz Posts: 939 Forumite
    500 Posts
    mcculloch29, I'm sorry you were so disappointed in the rituals shower gel; I started a full-sized one at the end of October and I only finished it this week :eek: I wonder if the one you got wasn't filled correctly? Either way, I'm not surprised that it's put you off.

    Thankyou luvlycake ;)

    asset, I think you have had lots of good advice already but that doesn't stop me being incensed on your part! Good luck in your job hunt.
  • poppy_f1
    poppy_f1 Posts: 2,637 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    1 TA - the soap and glory wand wizard - when i went to use it this morning it was a bit off - it had seperated so into the bin it went - chances are the other one is the same so will check that later
  • sjprmc01
    sjprmc01 Posts: 917 Forumite
    UU no 5. Lush penguin bubble bar WMBA. This was a sale purchase and I'd probably buy it again in the sale but not at full price
    No more unnecessary toiletries Feb 2014 INS: 24 UU: 13. Mar 2014. INS: lost count, naughty step for me! UU: 8
  • dolly84
    dolly84 Posts: 5,851 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Photogenic
    I have a uu

    Elemis Skin Nourishing Milk Bath - 400ml, I love the smell of this and it makes the water nice and soft but it is almost £40 a bottle, all of mine were gwp (I have several more) and I would never pay that for bath milk. It can be used as a moisturiser too which makes it better value but still a crazy price.
    Debt Free and now a saver, conscious consumer, low waste lifestyler


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