Rant - but nothing I can do anyway.

Kayalana99

Mojisola wrote: »

Make sure that you have support for yourself. It's incredibly upsetting to see someone you love being hurt and not being able to do much to help them.

Tbh I'm more worried about fact if she goes into hiding he would turn up here.... UGH.

It seems like its her only option but shes got a job a house everything here.... I'm not really sure how far he'd go but hes such an idiot he probally would go places like her work etc looking for her and causing trouble..

Mojisola

Kayalana99 wrote: »

Tbh I'm more worried about fact if she goes into hiding he would turn up here.... UGH.

It seems like its her only option but shes got a job a house everything here.... I'm not really sure how far he'd go but hes such an idiot he probally would go places like her work etc looking for her and causing trouble..

Sometimes that's what's needed because the police domestic abuse unit will then get involved - seeing other people's reactions to your abuser's behaviour can be the first time that a person realises how wrong the relationship has become.

Look on her local police website - there should be information like this -
https://www.thamesvalley.police.uk/3440_dv_leaflet_web.pdf

As well as talking things through with Women's Aid, you can also contact her police service and explain your concerns and her fear of him.