LittleAoife inspires me to be debt free

LittleAoife

in_need_of_direction wrote: »

Best of luck. I really hope it works out.

Me too! I can't bear the thought of the kids not having a dad around and I know if we do properly split he will move away and hardly see the kids.

mizmir

Best of luck. I really hope that everything works out. Whatever happens I am sure you will do what is best for you and your kids.

madhatter90

I'm wishing you luck for everything to work out! I'm sure you know yourself that you have to be strong on your husband taking responsibility for his children. They are his children too and he needs to be aware of that! Too often I see amongst friends and relatives that they shoulder so much of the childcare when they shouldn't have to.

Your dreams and needs matter just as much as his does - don't put them on hold for him.

Good luck with everything xx

LittleAoife

Trying but having a mega crap time. I'm hating this. We are not going to get back together. We are sleeping in separate bedrooms, having separate lives and living like separated people. We have decided it's over, I can't even look at him, I'm just gutted and so so sad. I need to get sorted out. It's important to do this right for the kids. I'm looking at jobs and even moving nearer to my job to cut the cost of travelling to work. I just need to make it work on my own now.
I'll post a newer SOA.
I'm only working on the ward for another 6 weeks and then I will be in the community until September so I really need to save for a car and I also need to look at moving closer to the hospital so I can be Nearer to work and my daughters high school for sept next year.

in_need_of_direction

Now the decision has been made, you will make it work on your own. You've already shown what you can achieve, you just need to hang in there for you and for the wee ones. Keep posting and keep your chin up.

LittleAoife

Today I feel miles better, I have had loads of response to my add on gumtree for a nanny and I'm going to scale it down to 10 to phone interview and then 4 to actually interview in person. I'm really excited as I think a nanny will not only be cheaper for my pocket but also more secure for the kids to be seeing the same person providing their care every day.
I had a great exam this week which I have passed, that's 2 down and 2 to go and the kids new bunk beds arrived yesterday ( ebay bargain!!!) so at least they will all have a bed each now. Just need to think about a car for sept as I'm in the community for my next block of training and I can't really take a bus to all my patients as I'll end up so late. I'm looking for a cheap run around, noting good looking just something cheap and reliable. I'm happy to receive any advice on a car as I know absolutely nothing about them! Lol
Much love LA xx

Money_mayhem

Hi LittleAoife. Have to say love the name Aoife, it's my daughters name too. Good luck with your exams and sorry to hear you're having a hard time at the moment - hope it gets better for you soon.

Mm :wave:

LittleAoife

Money_mayhem wrote: »

Hi LittleAoife. Have to say love the name Aoife, it's my daughters name too. Good luck with your exams and sorry to hear you're having a hard time at the moment - hope it gets better for you soon.

Mm :wave:

thanks I adore the name Aoife. Love you washing machine icon, isn't it funny that we both have icons doing the laundry! Lol

mizmir

Great to hear you so positive in what must be a very painful time. You are an inspiration. Sounds like you are getting things in order really well for you and your kids. Good luck finding a car - and with the remaining exams - and congratulations on the ones already passed! Well done. :T Hope you gave yourself a treat!