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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Morning :hello:

    2 more AFDs for Sunday and Monday and 1 more Llb lost making 9 Llbs :j This is getting exciting now lol - I've lost all my 2013 weight gain and am back to my December 2012 weight. And there is still 3 and a half months until our hols.

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    Shaggyx
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Calling in very early but 31/31 please Shaggy (& congrats on your AF & weight loss) Hey Alex done it again :)
    Had a bit of a think & going to give it a go on my own (but fully intend to keep hovering in the back ground) The support on here is fantastic but I always remember a comment made the end of January along the lines of If things are so much better without alcohol why would you want to drink? Well I really don't want one & Im finding that the only time Im thinking about it is to remind myself to post on here.
    Wishing you all well on your AF targets for April lets see if I can do it without the smileys lol ;)

    Good Luck! And pop back every once in awhile to let us know how you're getting along.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
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    paulineb wrote: »
    Managed last night on nothing stronger than soda water, which wouldnt have happened a year ago. I know I dont post often on here, but I was going to not update at all this month. I currently have someone trolling me around the boards and its been going on in one form or another since around Christmas and there's currently some debate going on in another section of this site as to whether by sharing stuff about my life I actually deserved, if thats the right word to be trolled like this.

    Ive spoken to few people offline about any struggles I had re alcohol and Im aware that someone only needs to look at my posting history to add this to the list of other insults that are currently doing the rounds, Im over 40, single, I have pets and I used to suffer from work related stress.

    Anyhow, I figure that it's just words on a screen and it won't stop me posting. Very likely to be a long term user in another guise, Im certainly not the first person to be picked off and Im sure I wont be the last.

    Just that sometimes, it takes a lot for people to go on any thread and say, Im struggling with this. You dont reckon that there's someone out there who wants to call you names over it.

    Not the way Id behave on a forum even if I didnt care for someone. Anyway, its a new month, good luck everyone, hope you all meet your targets.

    Ignore them. There are some right nutters on MSE (and of course some great posters too :T ) and they should be pitied. Well that's my humble opinion.

    Change your user name if you think you can be identified in RL - you will need a new e mail address however.
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    March 2014 :-

    yay.gifbanana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif = 7 Days AF

    e5r5fp.jpg= 14 days AF

    smiley-bravo.gif = 21 days AF

    smiley_emoticons_saint.gif= 28 days AF

    gold-medalist-smiley.gif?1292867608 = 31 days AF

    smiley-score010.gif350x700px-LL-3efc7289_greenstars.gif= target achieved


    AFoolWithMoney 31/31 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gife5r5fp.jpgsmiley-bravo.gifsmiley_emoticons_saint.gif350x700px-LL-3efc7289_greenstars.gifgold-medalist-smiley.gif?1292867608
    AlexLK
    25/25
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    ArsenalBarnie 10/10 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif 350x700px-LL-3efc7289_greenstars.gif

    Baileysonice 5/TF
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    BlueDaisy 11/16 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif

    ChocolateCupcake /22
    DebJay 12/16 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif
    DoshWaster 16/15 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gife5r5fp.jpg350x700px-LL-3efc7289_greenstars.gif
    Fruball
    17/18
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    Gien 10/22 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif
    Green Karen 27/21 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif e5r5fp.jpgsmiley-bravo.gif 350x700px-LL-3efc7289_greenstars.gif
    Guinness-Cat 15/15 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gife5r5fp.jpg350x700px-LL-3efc7289_greenstars.gif
    Gwithbag 10/14 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif

    KuneKune22 1/10
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    Maman 11/10 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif 350x700px-LL-3efc7289_greenstars.gif
    Milky1991 7/TF banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif
    Munchin 17/30 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif e5r5fp.jpg

    NewYearNewStart 2/TF
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    PriceySOS 20/22 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif e5r5fp.jpg

    Ruby 4/22
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    Scattyspice 10/15 banana-dancing-with-mario-smiley-emoticon.gif
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    5 Year Plan /22


    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    April 2014 :-

    yay.gif4funnies_com_animated_emoticons_easter_15.gif = 7 Days AF

    45ytfgh.gif= 14 days AF

    4funnies_com_animated_emoticons_easter_14.gif= 21 days AF

    smiley_emoticons_saint.gif= 28 days AF

    gold-medalist-smiley.gif?1292867608 = 30 days AF

    smiley-score010.gif350x700px-LL-3efc7289_greenstars.gif= target achieved


    AlexLK /25

    ArsenalBarnie /15

    Baileysonice

    Barny1979 /20

    BlueDaisy /16

    ChocolateCupcake

    DebJay /16

    DoshWaster /18

    Fruball
    /18


    Gien /15

    Green Karen /26

    Guinness-Cat

    Gwithbag /15

    KuneKune22

    Lamarsi /15

    Maman /10

    Milky1991 /10

    Miss Piggy /25

    Munchin

    NewYearNewStart

    Paulineb /15

    PriceySOS
    /20

    Ruby /16

    Satchmo /15

    Scattyspice

    Shaggy /17

    Stupotstu


    Sukeyboo /12

    The Boss /30

    TillerGirl

    Wanna Bee Free /14

    5 Year Plan


    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

    Please highlight your AFDs in Red

    Don't hesitate to let me know if I've made a mistake!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • shaggydoo
    shaggydoo Posts: 8,435 Forumite
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    Roll up, Roll up. A New Month, A New Challenge.
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    SET YOUR

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    30 days up for grabs!

    Everyone Welcome!!!
    What do we do when we fall? We get up, dust ourselves off and start walking in the right direction again. Perhaps when we fall, it is easy to forget there are people along the way who help us stand and walk with us as we get back on track.
  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    shaggydoo wrote: »
    Ignore them. There are some right nutters on MSE (and of course some great posters too :T ) and they should be pitied. Well that's my humble opinion.

    Change your user name if you think you can be identified in RL - you will need a new e mail address however.

    No more than Id be identified anywhere else I am online. As I said in the thread that was gathering pace last night Im a fitness instructor, my details have been posted on many a forum with more information than is on here, because on some forums, they make you post with your first and last name visible.

    It's just a bit odd that you can get on someone's nerves so much that they leave you alone for months and then start a massive campaign to troll you off the site. If all they can do is call me mentally ill because I suffered from work related stress and laugh at me because I'm single, I pity them.

    Particularly as it's very likely to be a regular forum user posting with various sockpuppet alter egos. To the people who think I made myself a sitting target because of anything I've shared on here, if it wasn't me, it would have been someone else and at least the people who came out the woodwork last night and made it very clear they dislike me have said it now and they can give a massive swerve to anything I post or put me on ignore. Such is the internet, these things happen.

    Anyway, thank you. Onwards and upwards.
  • sukeyboo
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    Congratulations to all those that met (and in several cases exceeded) their targets last month.

    Shaggy - you have done amazingly well with both the AF's and the weight loss - well done :T.
    I am declaring early for tonight at 1/12 AFD's.

    Good luck to all for the new month :)
  • maman
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    paulineb wrote: »
    Managed last night on nothing stronger than soda water, which wouldnt have happened a year ago. I know I dont post often on here, but I was going to not update at all this month. I currently have someone trolling me around the boards and its been going on in one form or another since around Christmas and there's currently some debate going on in another section of this site as to whether by sharing stuff about my life I actually deserved, if thats the right word to be trolled like this.

    Ive spoken to few people offline about any struggles I had re alcohol and Im aware that someone only needs to look at my posting history to add this to the list of other insults that are currently doing the rounds, Im over 40, single, I have pets and I used to suffer from work related stress.

    Anyhow, I figure that it's just words on a screen and it won't stop me posting. Very likely to be a long term user in another guise, Im certainly not the first person to be picked off and Im sure I wont be the last.

    Just that sometimes, it takes a lot for people to go on any thread and say, Im struggling with this. You dont reckon that there's someone out there who wants to call you names over it.

    Not the way Id behave on a forum even if I didnt care for someone. Anyway, its a new month, good luck everyone, hope you all meet your targets.


    I like your attitude Pauline. There are some really obnoxious people on the boards, I'm so delighted that I don't know people like that in RL. But on THIS THREAD you'll only meet lovely, supportive people. Stick with us.:D
  • jo1972
    jo1972 Posts: 8,901 Forumite
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    Miss_Piggy wrote: »
    Morning everyone and a big wave to anyone that remembers me!!

    Hello Miss P!! I'd heard you were back and thought I'd better drag my backside back on this here wagon ;)

    How you been diddling? Xx

    Shaggy, could put me down TF please and a 1/TF for today please? Ta muchly :D

    Jo x
    DFW Nerd no. 496 - Proud to be dealing with my debts!!
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