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The Giving Up/ Cutting Down alcohol support thread - number 13

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  • 15 please, Shaggy, ta
  • cathybird
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    16/21 for me today please. :)
  • Up to 9/13 for Friday night as I managed an AF night. Plan is now Mon-Thur AF then on hols for 2 weeks so not AF!!!!!
    What goes around comes around.....I hope!
  • Honey_Bear
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    maman wrote: »
    I did manage my AF Friday:). Thanks all for the support. I missed it more in anticipation as I generally look forward to 'weekend starts here' from wine o'clock on Fridays. Once I'd got into the evening it was just like any other AF day. I may try it again.:eek:

    Until I stopped drinking I had absolutely no idea how true this was.

    21/30 please Shaggy, with many thanks for everything you do for the thread.
    Better is good enough.
  • maman
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    Up to 9/13 for Friday night as I managed an AF night. Plan is now Mon-Thur AF then on hols for 2 weeks so not AF!!!!!


    :T well done lucy. Just enough days left to get to target.:D


    Strange that about anticipation HB. I hadn't really thought about it before. Now when I fancy an unplanned drink I'll just tell myself it's only the anticipation. I wonder if that would work?;)


    No drinking today.


    9 AFDs please Shaggy.
  • cathybird
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    17/21 for me please. :)
  • Eltee12
    Eltee12 Posts: 768 Forumite
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    Morning All


    21/30 including today.


    Thanks


    .....just noticed it's afternoon.....


    El
    2018 AFD 23/240
    2018 CCC #11 £38.40/£250
    Mortgage-free since 2013

    Debt-free since Nov 2017
  • shaggydoo
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    November

    smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646= 7 Days AF

    fireworks.gif= 14 days AF

    Smilies_Bananas_ChristmasDancing.giffirework.gif= 21 days AF
    pp_bday_112.gif= 28 days AF

    goldstar.gif= 30 days AF

    smiley-score010.gifbiggrin.gif = target achieved


    Alcohol Free Days

    Arkers
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    Barny1979
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    Be The Change /24

    BornToBeFree 9/28
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    CathyBird 17/21
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    CuppaTea 13/18 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646
    DebJay 11/15 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646

    Debt Now /30
    DizzyImp 14/25 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.gif
    Eltee 21/30
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    ElusiveLucy
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    GreenKaren 3/14

    Honey Bear 21/30 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646fireworks.giffirework.gif
    MaggieM 10/14 smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646
    Maman
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    Markman /8

    NewMe 2/TF
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    Sandypan
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    Shaggy 10/17
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    Smiley 17/30
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    SukeyBoo 9/12smileys-halloween-500315.gif?w=646

    WBF 3/14



    Everyone Welcome! It's never too late to join....

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  • sukeyboo
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    10/12 for today please Shaggy
  • pollyanna24
    pollyanna24 Posts: 4,391 Forumite
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    I've decided to come back here as I feel my drinking is getting a little bit out of control again. :(

    I pretty much wasted all weekend through being too hungover to do anything and I probably made an idiot of myself when my friend came round on Saturday. She drove, so I drank all of the wine I bought for us both to have, yawn yawn.

    I feel I've had issues with drink for a while now. If I make the decision to not drink and stick to it (which is the hard bit), I'm fine, but once I open the wine... well that's it.

    I've had 7 days AF so far this month and I want to try and give up for a while. I don't want to set a limit on it and say I'll never drink again, but if I give myself little targets, then it might work.

    Is saying I won't drink for the rest of November too much to think about? Probably. Now that I've said it, I'm already thinking about the wine I won't be having tonight with my dinner and beyond.
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