Thinking about selling wedding stuff

Stephb1986_2

Me and OH have broke up so in the next week I'll be selling stuff off, is there anything anyone needs in particular?

Steph xx

Trixsie1989

Steph I'm so sorry to hear that. Is there no chance of a reconciliation ? Xxx

Stephb1986_2

No I don't think so, he's had 6 years to sort the problem out and hasn't bothered so now I've had enough

Doesn't mean that I don't still love him but sometimes that just isn't enough. xx

Trixsie1989

Oh steph that's awful. The one before current oh was like that and he sorted himself out after we split but it was too little too late. If you want someone to talk to inbox me what exactly are you getting rid of? Xxx

Stephb1986_2

It's not drugs or anything it's a member of the family so he's sort of piggy in the middle xxxx

Trixsie1989

That's even worse! What a crap way to end the year xxx

CompBunny

I'm so sorry Steph Really sad to hear that after seeing you on these boards. What are you selling? I still need quite a lot of things. Although more importantly hope you and your ex are able to reconcile if you still love him.

I highly, highly recommend counselling through Relate. H2B and I went despite being young and unmarried and it was the best thing for us. We were in a similar position - loved each other but so many huge problems in our lives. Counselling helped us learn how to overcome those problems together, or work together to cope with the things that can't be overcome. They also offer counselling at discounted rates (we paid £15 per session as h2b was unemployed at the time and I wasn't working due to illness, part of the probs) if you don't have much money. http://www.relate.org.uk/home/index.html

Sazzarella

So sorry to hear that Steph. It must be the season for it as I found out OH had been cheating on me yesterday and our wedding is also off Look after yourself xx

MissTeach

Oh my goodness ladies, I'm so sorry to hear that :-(

CompBunny

*hugs for Sazzarella* Not alot to say apart from I really am sorry to hear that, you must have a million thoughts buzzing around your head right now. I hope both you ladies have some supportive friends and family around you right now xxx

ellesbellesxxx

Really sorry to hear that Sazz and Steph. Sending virtual hugs (albeit from a stranger!) and hope that things look up from now on xxx