Elite christmas special

kadison

TrulyMadly wrote: »

Can't friendships be tricky. She obviously means a lot to you and you are hurting. But is her life really that great. It's like those round robin letters you get at Christmas telling you how wonderful their life is compared to yours. If that's the case, do people really need to shout about it? Inner contentment speaks volumes:)

I wonder if you have both moved on in different directions over the years. Do you have another friend who is more deserving of your friendship? Someone who can nurture all that love you have to offer.
I'm not saying it's time to move on but perhaps time to reassess the people in your life.

Sending her a message is the right thing to do....keeping the lines of communication open .......but you shouldn't upset yourself if she reacts. It's YOUR life, a New Year and maybe time to take stock:)

That's the thing, we so haven't moved in different directions, we are and always have been on the same wavelength, and she comments on my FB all the time but actions speak louder, I hope I'm just being paranoid, really I do.

I do have another bestie who is completely different and who I see regularly, she's quite 'Monica from friends', pushy but brilliant. I just don't want her to be my only best friend, I would miss this other one so much.

streetlights wrote: »

Kadison I am sorry you have been so upset, it's sometimes better to clear the air by an honest conversation, at least you both know were you stand. It can be distressing when relationships change, but dwelling on it on your own will only lead to more upset. I hope the message you sent gets a quick response and you can get back on track.

Thanks hun xx

fairclaire wrote: »

Well do let us know what she says. It really is nice to have you back......where on earth have you been anyway :eek:

Oh you know, here and there, Milan, Paris, Peckham :rotfl:

You guys have cheered me up so much, though I am still crying (need to get it all out before I go mad), I feel so much better having aired it xxx

fairclaire

kadison wrote: »

That's the thing, we so haven't moved in different directions, we are and always have been on the same wavelength, and she comments on my FB all the time but actions speak louder, I hope I'm just being paranoid, really I do.

I do have another bestie who is completely different and who I see regularly, she's quite 'Monica from friends', pushy but brilliant. I just don't want her to be my only best friend, I would miss this other one so much.



Thanks hun xx



Oh you know, here and there, Milan, Paris, Peckham :rotfl:

You guys have cheered me up so much, though I am still crying (need to get it all out before I go mad), I feel so much better having aired it xxx

Well Im glad you have come home.......I do love some competition in the toiletry buying stakes

kadison

fairclaire wrote: »

I think this thread is wonderful. EMMAP and Kadison.....friends of the future you saw it here first

What do you mean 'of the future'? I fort we was all fwends *cries*

EMMAP wrote: »

Yeah I realised about half way through my reply I was just going off on one about friendship!

It is good to clear the air though. Sometimes you think you already know the answer but can be surprised Hope all turns out well.

Sometimes going off on one can really help, perhaps you needed to air it too? xx

fairclaire wrote: »

Well Im glad you have come home.......I do love some competition in the toiletry buying stakes

Are you on this thread?

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4856336

See post #6

fairclaire

kadison wrote: »

What do you mean 'of the future'? I fort we was all fwends *cries*


Sometimes going off on one can really help, perhaps you needed to air it too? xx



Are you on this thread?

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4856336

See post #6

I can just see you and EMMAP getting on

NO!! I'm not on that thread and I'm not going to......Im under control ......no, I really am! :rotfl:

davemorton

kadison wrote: »

Are you on this thread?

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/4856336

See post #6

Just .............. :eek::eek::eek::eek::eek::eek:

Chrisv

Savvybuyer wrote: »

...
The Activia 8 pack yogs are showing £1.50 for Sains, but £3 each in Mr A (is that really the price or is there an mbuy on? Unable to reach a.com at the moment to check - so can you do it for me? Though it'll probably kick me off and I won't be able to see the forum!)...

A.com - 8 pack £3, 4 pack 2 for £3.

zippydooda

fairclaire wrote: »

Well Im glad you have come home.......I do love some competition in the toiletry buying stakes

I'm not. she will pinch all my goodies.






I am glad to see kadison back

davemorton

Ladies are always welcome to pinch my goodies

streetlights

Kadison I have just seen your haul, you put me to shame, I thought I had a healthy stash. That's amazing.

streetlights

davemorton wrote: »

Ladies are always welcome to pinch my goodies

Hi davemorton what have you got that is worth pinching:rotfl: