Don't know if I can continue anymore

ForeverBroken

Tonight I'm sat in the middle of no where after walking all day
My fianc!es parents have been saying stuff about me for some time, however on Friday they took her to their house and since I have not heard from her
She is 3 months pregnant, we have our own place and she has been very happy since we got together

I haven't eaten, drank or slept since Friday evening when she disappeared

She was reported missing and earlier today detectives visited her and checked she is okay
They tell me she's said she doesn't wish to speak to me at present

I'm devastated and don't know where to turn, I have no one really
I'm in pierces and up until yesterday was vomiting heavily

The last few hours since speaking to police and have felt very suicidal and my mind set is to do something to myself so I don't feel this pain anymore and that maybe, she'll realise how much I love her
Please don't judge me, she is my everything, I love her and she's the only one who actually genuinely ever cared for me

paulineb_2

Well, killing yourself isnt the answer, thats the first thing to say. At least you know shes alive. And it seems really odd that shes living with you and really happy and then all of a sudden her parents whisk her off and she doesnt want to see you.

Sounds like theres more to this, what kind of relationship does she have with them? If shes so happy with you why do they have this influence on her?

Sorry, but topping yourself so she'll realise that you love her? What about your child?

I know it must be hard but go home, eat something, try and get a sleep

And if you think I dont know anything about suicide, I do, its happened twice in my family in the last 3 generations and being the person who has to carry on after someone you love has killed themselves, I wouldnt wish it on anyone.

DigForVictory

Then get something to eat & something to drink pronto.
Once you're fed & hydrated, your blood chemistry has a better chance of helping you cope.

The Samaritans are on 08457 90 90 90, if you need to call them.

When she gets away from her folks, the whole 'escape to find beloved dead' routine is fine for Shakespeare but hell on wheels for anyone in real life & she's pregnant.

Don't do anything foolish to risk that little one's wellbeing, eh?

Get the food & drink down you & see how you go.

74jax

You are going to be a father. I can't see how being a dead one would achieve anything.

Why don't her parents like you, you must know.

Do you have no idea why they took her two nights ago?

nearlyrich

I echo Dig for Victory call the Samaritans and hang in there you have a baby on the way and one way or another this will work itself out.

Browntoa

this is not really the place to be if you are suicidal , please go and sit down and ring the samaritans now

they will listen and help you get through this

ForeverBroken

I don't know

I really don't know
They don't like the fact they live in Ireland and she choose to move to England, that's all I know

I'm breaking my heart, I have no contact number for her and she's deleted her twitter

paulineb_2

All I can say is, you can get through the worst times in life and come out the other side, killing yourself is not the answer.

Go home, eat, sleep and when you wake up in the morning, have a think about how you can try and contact her. She may be under their influence now, that doesnt mean its always going to be the case and I bet pregnancy hormones wont be helping either.

She knows where you are. For now all you can do is wait until shes ready to talk to you.

moneysaver12

Hi please ring the samaritains. Have you got any friends you could talk to

McKneff

Her parents would not have bound and gagged her and carried her out of the door.


Killing yourself would leave such devastation, don't even think about it. You maybe wouldn't feel anything but think of the pain you will leave the child. your child, with for the rest of its life.


Now eat something, drink something and get professional help by ringing the Samaritans

meritaten

now how would that help your girlfriend or your baby?
you need to get your head together fast!
if her parents have taken her back and are forcing her to deny she wants to see you to the police - she needs you to stay strong and either find out if she really doesn't want to see you or if she is being forced to say so.
I don't know the background to this - I can guess but may be wrong.
it seems like the end of the world to you now - but you need to dig and NOT take peoples word for this. girlfriend needs your help perhaps - not hearing that you have committed suicide and left her to cope alone?