thank you everyone, may be upsetting to some.

Peter999_2

I've never had a pet, never wanted a pet. But, by god, if I was a pet I'd want you as my owner.

Miss_J

Ahhhh, I really feel your pain and feel all sad reading your post. We went through this in April when We lost one of boys aged 18. It still hits me now, the trauma of having to make that decision, but I know ultimately it was best to let him go when he did. I still have his brother (turns 19 in February) and it's horrible to see him slow down, he seemed so youthful up until we lost his brother. It upsets me to think about having to go down this route with him. Ultimately though the pain felt is due to the loving bond we have with our pets and right up to the end they know and sense this and that must bring them comfort as they come to the end. Big hugs to you and your family x

paddypaws101

Sincere condolences Pukka Mum (and Gold Dust too)
I have had to do this twice now, and before the first time was genuinely terrified of the whole process.
Like you, I was able to get the vet to do a house visit and the act itself was so gentle, and quick and welcomed by the cat that I was better able to deal with the loss of my beloved companions.
I found it extraordinary how it was so obvious that the cat had 'gone' as soon as the drugs took effect.

I think the best tribute you can give to a departed pet IS to get another....visit any local rescue and you will see rows of cages full of loving family pets just longing for a home like yours.

tea_lover

So sorry for your loss, but so glad to hear how you all handled it. Sounds like Rosie had the best send off anyone could hope for, at home, being held by her loved ones x.

Brallaqueen

((hugs)) to you and your family pukkamum

wilykit

It brought tears to my eyes reading that. I think you went about it in a lovely way - especially involving the children. We had a 17 year old cat who my parents had put to sleep whilst we were at school and told us afterwards. I know they wanted to stop us from getting upset etc but it was awful that we never got to say our goodbyes.

Sorry for your loss, but what a lovely send off

xx

puppypants

So sorry for your loss. Please consider getting another cat from a rescue asap. It will not replace your beloved Rosie, but giving a good life to another unfortunate pusskit would be honouring her memory!! That's how I see it anyway. xx Best wishes. x

aileth

So sorry for your loss, Pukkamum. Really shouldn't have read that on my lunchbreak, I'm weeping a bit.

Person_one

I'm so sorry for your loss, but you handled it perfectly and I'm glad that the end of her life could be a positive experience just as the rest of her time with you was.

madget_2

I think you handled things extremely well, pukkamum. It's such a hellishly difficult and sad decision to have to make, but it sounds as though you made it as gentle and loving as possible for little Rosie and as understanding as possible for your children.

They will have sad memories of the occasion, obviously, but peaceful at least and not horribly traumatic.

My heart goes out to you and your family. Like many others on the forum, we know how you must be feeling. You're not alone, sweetheart.