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  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    tigtag02 wrote: »
    Thank you for all your replies - I am going to print this page of and post it to my mum as I think it will really cheer her up.

    I'm actually 200 miles away from them but the plan is for them to come home - its a bit of a logistical nightmare for my mum as she has to sell the house, arange for work/housing up here and also the transfer of my SD.

    She has already applied to the local council here and recieved her reference number to *bid* with but I have told her to get lots of supporting letters from SD's medical team to hopefull help.

    If anyone has any practical or emotional advice to make the transition easie for them then it will be most certainly gratefully received :)

    Sorry if I'm being dense but why is she selling a property and going to the council? Can't she just buy a more suitable property in the new area? Perhaps I've missed something.
    I hope he makes a good recovery.
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Sorry if I'm being dense but why is she selling a property and going to the council? Can't she just buy a more suitable property in the new area? Perhaps I've missed something.
    I hope he makes a good recovery.

    Is there a problem with her doing this?
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    tigtag02 wrote: »
    Is there a problem with her doing this?

    Not at all; I just wondered why someone would choose this route. I wouldn't have thought that you'd get a large number of points with the council if you were selling your own property voluntarily.
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    The council are aware that she has a property, that is mortgaged, highly, with now only one means of income - that doesnt cover everything!!

    Hidsight is a wonderfull thing and in this instance would have bought a lovely policy to cover the nightmare they are now living - unfortunately hidsight is just that :( and if she doesnt sell she will lose everything - hope that covers it.

    The council are aware of his stroke but not of the extent of medical back up from his care providers, GP, etc which is the next *job on*.
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • Oldernotwiser
    Oldernotwiser Posts: 37,425 Forumite
    I'm sure you're under a great deal of pressure at the moment, so I'll ignore the tone of your comments. I simply posted an enquiry as to why this course of action was being followed.

    I genuinely hope he makes a good recovery.
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    ONW

    The *hope that covers it* was the only *tone* within my reply. I know that you give imense help on this site but just couldnt see the relevance of your question, even though I answered it.

    Thank you for your good wishes - I hope you are right :)
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • Morglin
    Morglin Posts: 15,922 Forumite
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    tigtag02 wrote: »
    The council are aware that she has a property, that is mortgaged, highly, with now only one means of income - that doesnt cover everything!!

    Hidsight is a wonderfull thing and in this instance would have bought a lovely policy to cover the nightmare they are now living - unfortunately hidsight is just that :( and if she doesnt sell she will lose everything - hope that covers it.

    The council are aware of his stroke but not of the extent of medical back up from his care providers, GP, etc which is the next *job on*.


    As long as she won't end with liquid assets over about £100k, they should be ok with the council (although how long they may have to wait will vary).

    The other thing is that Sheltered Schemes (for disabled and elderly) are massively under subscribed in many areas (they built too many), and they often take direct referrals as well.

    But, as I said, for the best chance, send an avalanche of medical back up.

    Lin :)
    You can tell a lot about a woman by her hands..........for instance, if they are placed around your throat, she's probably slightly upset. ;)
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Morglin wrote: »
    As long as she won't end with liquid assets over about £100k, they should be ok with the council (although how long they may have to wait will vary).

    The other thing is that Sheltered Schemes (for disabled and elderly) are massively under subscribed in many areas (they built too many), and they often take direct referrals as well.

    But, as I said, for the best chance, send an avalanche of medical back up.

    Lin :)

    Thanks again Lin - I gave her the *hard word* last night about getting all this paperwork together - its so hard her been down there and I do feel useless sometimes.

    She wont be left with anywhere near £100K let alone in excess of :(

    Now, I may be being very blonde here but would you please explain the bit in bold as I dont understand :doh:
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
  • Morglin
    Morglin Posts: 15,922 Forumite
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    tigtag02 wrote: »
    Thanks again Lin - I gave her the *hard word* last night about getting all this paperwork together - its so hard her been down there and I do feel useless sometimes.

    She wont be left with anywhere near £100K let alone in excess of :(

    Now, I may be being very blonde here but would you please explain the bit in bold as I dont understand :doh:

    Local councils and local Housing Associations built a lot of sheltered schemes a few years ago - they are basically independent flats/bungalows, of varying sizes, but generally have a scheme manager to give any support (not personal care) that may be needed - they can refer the tenant onto Social Services if they need meals on wheels or a home care worker, for example. They can contact the family/doctor if someone is unwell. They agree a support package with the tenant. All flats have emergency cords so that help can be summoned quickly. Some have visiting hairdressers, chiropodists etc., They may have staff from the local DWP/Age concern visit to give advice on benefits etc.,

    The flats are generally secure from intruders, and often have communal lounges and other things. They usually have laundry facilities that come in with the rent, and very often the heating is paid the same way.

    Generally, they are either for over 50's or disabled.

    They can also be supportive, althought this depends on the rest of the tenants - and are usually peaceful places to live.

    Prospective tenants used to need to be nominated by the council, (and it may be that in your area, you still need to be), but due to an excess of properties, now often take direct referrals, where flats are allocated according to medical/age need.

    They are usually disabled-friendly, in that they have wide doorways etc., for wheelchairs, and bathrooms that cater for age/disability.

    To find out, try Googling "Sheltered Housing in: (put what area you need)" - you'd be surprised what comes up. If you find one that does take direct referrals, then contact them.

    Good luck.

    Lin :)
    You can tell a lot about a woman by her hands..........for instance, if they are placed around your throat, she's probably slightly upset. ;)
  • tigtag02
    tigtag02 Posts: 6,857 Forumite
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    Thats fantastic Lin - Thank you so much.

    I am on the case :):)

    A little update on my SD. He is seeming very positive and talking in the *when I can walk again* sense which is very good BUT, he fell out of chis chair today :eek:

    He appears to be ok but they are just waitng on the Dr to check him out :rolleyes:
    :heartpuls baby no3 due 16th November :heartpuls
    TEAM YELLOW
    DFD 16/6/10
    "Shut your gob! Or I'll come round your houses and stamp on all your toys" The ONE, the ONLY, the LEGENDARY Gene Hunt :heart2:
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