Relationship / What to do? / Problem

In-need-of-a-smile

Definitely option 3 move on and explore what life has to offer and leave the worries of your ex and so called friend behind!
At your age you ought to get out there and have some fun, that's when you will build up a new network of real friends and meet the girl of your dreams
:-) go get em!!

tinkerbell28

They were snogging and kissing, who uses the word snog?

The new girl is better looking, good stuff, as if that's important. Making an effort isn't crying a whole lot more.

I'd stay way from relationships and just have fun.

Prothet_of_Doom

Oh how your post made me laugh.

Did you read it? Pretend to be your grandad and read it again. Now pretend to give yourself advise from your grandad's perpective.

My Grandad, would have said something not very PC, but to summarise he'd be saying man up, take up a sport, go to night school, avoid these snakes with legs, and look at where you want to be in 10 years time.

I guess your next post is an update saying both women are pregnant, and what are you to do???

Before that happens RUN away, and start carving out a new life.

Eventually into that life walks "the one" and you'll know.

moneysniffer

You're 20? Good grief. The whole things reads like a 15 year old drama (I'm still in my 20's, so I'm not thinking "fondly back into my youth")!

Both women sound very immature and are probably going to cause you a headache of one sort or another, so I agree with others and say look elsewhere! Don't get drawn into these sorts of games. The one with your ex especially, she sounds like a cow bag. Yes, you are being treated like a mug, just cut her out of your life.

By the by, if your ex was cheating on you, you might want to get checked out for STI's... You don't want to give your next girlfriend a nasty surprise.

Saturnalia

Don't go back to the cheating ex. And don't get into a relationship with anyone until you can accept that she might have had a boyfriend before you.

sharp82

Hollyoaks has the answer to their next story line!

Bazey

How tall are these girls, do they live under bridges?

deeriley93

It does sounds all immature, i writ that at 1.30AM and was extremely tired. The people who took that seriously and was kind enough to give me their advice i appreciate it. Think ill go with option 3.

Primrose

Take a deep breath and take a break from females for brief while. Neither of these girls sound right for you and it't not compulsory to be in a relationship all the time. Why settle for second best? Take your time and wait until a nicer girl comes along