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how can I tell him to leave without causing offence...!

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  • dottyanne
    dottyanne Posts: 1,530 Forumite
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    It has affected my relationship really - were still ok - don't get me wrong but we'd only been married 6 months when he came and so therefore havent really had any US time (we both have kids) and we used to have a few days/nights where the kids stayed with other parent etc where we did whatever we wanted - its just not the same - I know hubby tolerates it coz he loves me so but its not fiar now. Plus we need the room back - our kids allbunk in one and he has a room to himself!
    Focusing on clearing the credit cards in 2018 :T
  • newcook
    newcook Posts: 5,001 Forumite
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    dottyanne wrote: »
    It has affected my relationship really - were still ok - don't get me wrong but we'd only been married 6 months when he came and so therefore havent really had any US time (we both have kids) and we used to have a few days/nights where the kids stayed with other parent etc where we did whatever we wanted - its just not the same - I know hubby tolerates it coz he loves me so but its not fiar now. Plus we need the room back - our kids allbunk in one and he has a room to himself!

    thats not fair on anyone!! I think its definately time to start the conversation of him flying the nest!!!
  • nats3006
    nats3006 Posts: 1,627 Forumite
    hope you get it sorted dotty and good luck
    "Have you ever noticed that if you rearranged the letters in mother in law, they come out to Woman Hitler?":p :p:p

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  • oops_a_daisy
    oops_a_daisy Posts: 2,460 Forumite
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    newcook wrote: »
    yay!!! waved my dad off on the train yesterday!!!!! bless him! I said to him it was lovely to have him stay but it would have been better under different circumstances (ie a planned visit). hopefully I will be registered as a childminder soon so if there is a next time I can tell him to stay put and sort it out as he wont be able to stay with me as he is not CRB checked...!


    pleased it all worked out well for you. Now quick change the locks, move house, change your names and have reconstructive surgery just incase it happens again :rotfl:


    (((((DOTTYANNE)))))
    :cool: Official DFW Nerd Club Member #37 Debt free Feb 07 :cool:
  • newcook
    newcook Posts: 5,001 Forumite
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    pleased it all worked out well for you. Now quick change the locks, move house, change your names and have reconstructive surgery just incase it happens again :rotfl:


    (((((DOTTYANNE)))))

    LOL!!!!!!:rotfl: :rotfl:
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