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Savvybuyer

Sunshinemummy wrote: »

I think many people of here would be quiet happy to hear this! But you are right there is some personal parts that are best not shared.... but I have trouble telling which parts!

I have come to the opinion, that I have no intention to offend, so if I offend I am happy to apologise, but not change who I am.

:p:p:p

Now, if I couldn't "change" who I was (my quotes around the word "change" itself showing my literal interpretation!) and that if I had a compulsion to share "honest" descriptions of certain things (there's where my prudishness and my Asperger instinct has been tempered by society and thus restricted, probably no doubt due to my rigid adherence (or attempt to) at its rules), I doubt the forum masters/mistresses would be happy yet if they remove things and in effect it's because of my disability?:think:

Yet again*, I'm sure society's own rules on disability will then be interpreted and tempered in a way to suit society, rather than be the totally consistent, honest, truthful thing that society (expressly or impliedly) might be seen as claiming to aspire to be.

Btw - I've no intention of posting anything that might be "inappropriate" (whatever that might be:o, and the word "inappropriate" itself one of the most inappropriate words in the English language as it is so vague and almost totally unclear). For clarity, neither will I post anything such thing, whether the lack of intention exists or not! So: sorry I've created no wriggle-room for myself now!

"I've no intention of posting..." (Yes, but you might, even if you (presently (presumably)) don't have the intention of doing so.)


(*I'm implying: "as in so many areas", which are not in the scope of this current post.)

Dizzy_Ditzy

bubbs wrote: »

Misery guts back?:rotfl::rotfl:

Yes. Been out on the P since 2pm

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bubbs

queen_of_cheap wrote: »

Yes. Been out on the P since 2pm

He will be asleep in a few mins then:rotfl::T

Sunshinemummy

Savvybuyer wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

That's so funny, because imagine people with Asperger's and their difficulty in understanding unwritten rules. Now - I'm assuming you don't have Asperger's, and yet even people without it struggle to tell what the standards are!:rotfl::D Supposedly 'their' (in general terms) own standards - standards created by people without Asperger's for people without Asperger's.

:huh:

I often get myself in trouble by telling the truth or asking a question that is deemed politically incorrect. But I do accept that it must be hard when there is absolute truth. I have many stories I could repeat, but usually it is when I am being rude and if I post I will offend. I once had a interview for a job, when they asked me if I had questions I reply 'do you swear in the office, 'cus I ain't working where I can't swear!'. Scarily I got the job!

Savvybuyer

Sunshinemummy wrote: »

Of course you are right, but it is a sad reflection of society and I hope people still aspire to tell the truth.

Within reason.

I don't think it's necessarily "sad" - even though it is the truth:D - but certainly the 'tell the truth' mantra cannot literally apply in every every circumstance, sometimes 'common' (whatever that is) decency or decorum, or things such as not wanting to upset the other person (I suppose that relates to decency the same thing) dictate no.

This is part of the unwritten unlearned thing (unlearned as appears instinctive to most people) but it's not what we are taught in schools and, therefore, woefully (esp. as an Asperger person) I wasn't taught it. And, yes, we do need to be taught! (It isn't obvious or self-explanatory to (almost all of) us.) I suppose I learned it through experience - well, I definitely learned it through experience; there's no 'suppose' about it at all.

I think really we (most of us) hope people aspire to tell the truth within reason. (And then that qualifier - "within reason" arguably allows all sorts of get-out!) Would it be that society were, or could be, consistent.

Of course, this detailed "exception to the rule", then exception to that, etc., isn't how most people "operate". Indeed, people don't operate (they're not machines) and it's not a mechanical thing in that sense as that would imply - most people, nearly all people, just get on with things and on with life without concerning themselves with it - they know really want is expected or is right or wrong or such. (Although if you ask them specifically and exactly what they "know", they then doubtless can't tell you, as they don't really know at all.) It's those people with Asperger's (zzzz....:rotfl:) that operate (whose brains operate) in this way, and constantly think about it too (if it's a current special interest of theirs) - which is no problem as their brains are the ones constantly capable of thinking and dealing with thought.

Those Asperger's people eh? It's them you've got to worry about - always coming up with invidious and pernicious challenges to the way things are done.:):D

Just to mention at the end, I don't claim to speak for anyone other than myself. I've no idea how others with the condition may or may not see things, any more than I don't know how any person without it does or doesn't.

Sunshinemummy

queen_of_cheap wrote: »

Yes. Been out on the P since 2pm

If he anything like my other half, he is likely to be asleep in half an hour!

Dizzy_Ditzy

bubbs wrote: »

He will be asleep in a few mins then:rotfl::T

I wish. He's got the verbal squits again :mad:

Thrifty_Sister

Sunshinemummy wrote: »

I often get myself in trouble by telling the truth or asking a question that is deemed politically incorrect. But I do accept that it must be hard when there is absolute truth. I have many stories I could repeat, but usually it is when I am being rude and if I post I will offend. I once had a interview for a job, when they asked me if I had questions I reply 'do you swear in the office, 'cus I ain't working where I can't swear!'. Scarily I got the job!

Aaw Savvy - life must be quite difficult at times :A

bubbs

queen_of_cheap wrote: »

I wish. He's got the verbal squits again :mad:

Thats a good way of putting it:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: