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How much rent to pay to Mum?

If I buy all my own food, do my own washing and cooking.

Is £50 per month fair
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  • claire16c
    claire16c Posts: 7,074 Forumite
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    This was discussed on a similar thread not long ago.

    It comes down to what is appropriate to you & your family's individual situation. So I would ask them. No one on here can give you a figure.

    Although £50 a month doesn't sound like much, I have no idea how old you are, your work situation, your parents financial concerns or what they actually want/need.

    Ask your mum!
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    Not this again!

    You're not a newbie, so sorry to be harsh, but I'd just delete this and use the search function. This has been done to death on here and you won't get anything approaching a consensus, just a lot of bickering.
  • *max*
    *max* Posts: 3,208 Forumite
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    There we go again...

    What does your mum say? Do you work?
  • caeler
    caeler Posts: 2,638 Forumite
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    If you moved in with me, £50 wouldn't cover the extra council tax I'd have to pay due to losing the single occupancy discount. Try again.
  • 1/3 rd of your income. Simples
  • thorsoak
    thorsoak Posts: 7,166 Forumite
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    If I buy all my own food, do my own washing and cooking.

    Is £50 per month fair

    No! You are using utilities - water, heating, lighting. Are you using your own cutlery, cooking utensils, your own washing machine? Do you own your own sheets/towels? When you cook - do you use your own condiments or just delve into the cupboard.

    Have you got your own internet connection, your own tv licence etc etc etc.

    Think again!
  • What is it with all these adult children buying all their own food? Do you really never eat a meal with your parents? Or use *anything* at all from the kitchen cupboards? You have your own butter, pasta, salt, pepper, ketchup, olive oil etc etc? What a complete waste of space that must be and how confusing for everyone.

    Frankly I'd rather have an extra room than £50 a month and a child who didn't want to share a meal with me.
  • hieveryone
    hieveryone Posts: 3,858 Forumite
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    A few years ago I used to grudge giving my mum money for my 'keep', I really did. I thought she was being greedy, wanting to take all my money - didn't she know I had make up/hair do's/car/nights out/shoes/handbags to buy??


    If I thought my mum would let me move back in now for the amount that she used to ask for, I'd bite her hand off! :rotfl:


    Bought is to buy. Brought is to bring.
  • Hermia
    Hermia Posts: 4,473 Forumite
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    hieveryone wrote: »
    A few years ago I used to grudge giving my mum money for my 'keep', I really did. I thought she was being greedy, wanting to take all my money - didn't she know I had make up/hair do's/car/nights out/shoes/handbags to buy??


    If I thought my mum would let me move back in now for the amount that she used to ask for, I'd bite her hand off! :rotfl:

    Ha ha! I remember being stunned when I got my very first utility bills. I actually rung up my mum saying I thought they must have got the amount wrong and she was like, errr no that sounds normal!
  • Person_one
    Person_one Posts: 28,884 Forumite
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    hieveryone wrote: »
    A few years ago I used to grudge giving my mum money for my 'keep', I really did. I thought she was being greedy, wanting to take all my money - didn't she know I had make up/hair do's/car/nights out/shoes/handbags to buy??


    If I thought my mum would let me move back in now for the amount that she used to ask for, I'd bite her hand off! :rotfl:

    I bet you wouldn't really. I love my parents very much but I wouldn't move back even if they paid me! :eek:
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