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  • Pollycat
    Pollycat Posts: 35,940 Forumite
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    pawsies wrote: »
    Getting to work on time or making sure you look good for work?

    This is for a customer facing role.

    I just don't understand why my OH (male) will have a shower and straighten his hair to make sure he looks good when he has 20 minutes to get to work (travel time) and he starts doing these things 20 minutes before!!!

    For the record I am pretty good at time keeping but if I am running late I would stick some deodorant on and be out of the door asap.
    Surely it's a no-brainer!

    If he's consistently late he might find he doesn't have a job to look good for.

    Doesn't he realise this?

    I'm not sure I'd be so blas! about it as you seem to be, OP.
  • Tropez
    Tropez Posts: 3,696 Forumite
    Well I usually work from home, so I generally look like a scruffy hobo and roll up at any old time.

    However, when I do have to go to the office, getting there on time is the most important thing. I'm not out to pull anyone at the office and providing I don't show up in ripped jeans, a t-shirt that has gone unwashed in a month and muddy wellies no one really cares. If I have to meet clients, generally, I will ensure I have time to make myself presentable but I'm still not sacrificing being on time. I have a trick where I'll just get myself ready a bit earlier than normal.
  • Skinto_7
    Skinto_7 Posts: 264 Forumite
    pawsies wrote: »
    Getting to work on time or making sure you look good for work?

    This is for a customer facing role.

    I just don't understand why my OH (male) will have a shower and straighten his hair to make sure he looks good when he has 20 minutes to get to work (travel time) and he starts doing these things 20 minutes before!!!

    For the record I am pretty good at time keeping but if I am running late I would stick some deodorant on and be out of the door asap.

    Men straightening their hair is surely worse than being late for work!!!
  • Getting there on time is way more important. I consistently get up late, so don't put any effort in - quickly brush hair and teeth, put on some deodorant and rush.

    I've only been pulled up on looking a bit scruffy once, and they weren't too mean about it, but being late is a much bigger deal.
    There is hope for us yet
  • NAR
    NAR Posts: 4,863 Forumite
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    Vanity, vanity, wherefore art thou vanity! :rotfl:
    He should get to work on time. If he gets criticism about how he looks, then he will hopefully get up earlier.
  • Bazey
    Bazey Posts: 8,230 Forumite
    He's clearly having an affair with a colleague.

    Does he stay late? Putting in the extra hours...likes to earn the (leg) over time?
  • Bazey
    Bazey Posts: 8,230 Forumite
    Or he's gay. No straight man would straighten his hair.
  • Janepig
    Janepig Posts: 16,780 Forumite
    I'm all for staying in bed until the last possible moment in the mornings and although I don't bother trying to beautify myself (you can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear :D) and don't really have a set start time, I would tend to end up rushing. Last week one of my colleagues (and good friend) was killed by someone rushing to work who hit him with their car. So I'm not going to be rushing anymore. Too bad it took that for me to learn a lesson.

    Jx
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  • ska_lover
    ska_lover Posts: 3,773 Forumite
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    Sorry but I think it is hilarious that men straighten their hair!
    The opposite of what you know...is also true
  • Hermia
    Hermia Posts: 4,473 Forumite
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    ska_lover wrote: »
    Sorry but I think it is hilarious that men straighten their hair!

    I used to have a male colleague who straightened his hair. Unfortunately, he was rather clumsy and would frequently turn up for work with burns on his ears!
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