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Help with enforcement order

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My ex has ignored a court order that allowed me access to our son. I have spent all my savings on legal fees and cannot afford the solicitors fees for an enforcement order.
I can pay the court fees for the enforcement, I was wondering are there are any templates that I could use for wording the order to proceed by myself.
Has anyone been through this, will I see my son, or can his mother keep ignoring the court, she is fully aware that the penality to ignore the court may be community service.

I need your help please.

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  • persian
    persian Posts: 11 Forumite
    Can anyone help please. I dont know if MSE can help, but maybe someone can point me in the right direction.
  • monty-doggy
    monty-doggy Posts: 2,134 Forumite
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    It's really difficult, we went through a similar thing with my oh ex wife.

    In a nut shell no, you will need to go back to court. However you could write her a firm but not offensive letter explaining the consequences and you are fully prepared to take her back to court.

    Have you tried using a mediation service?

    As a final resort give Jeremy Kyle show a ring. That should kicker up the backside!
  • spacey2012
    spacey2012 Posts: 5,836 Forumite
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    I will give you a tip that can save thousands.

    "You will always catch more flies with honey than vinegar"

    Think about it.
    Be happy...;)
  • spacey2012 wrote: »

    "You will always catch more flies with honey than vinegar"

    Have to say, that is a great quote
  • Lieja
    Lieja Posts: 466 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    My OH went through the court system with his ex and did it all himself, although she did obey the court order so he didn't have to take it further. My OH found Families Need Fathers quite helpful - give them a google and phone them up :)
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