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Real-life MMD: I've enough money not to work, so I give ALL my earnings to charity...
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Here is this week's real life money moral dilemma sent in by one of our site users (if you have one email [EMAIL="MMD@moneysavingexpert.com"]MMD@moneysavingexpert.com[/EMAIL] )
Money Moral Dilemma: I've enough money not to work, so I give ALL my earnings to charity. Should I quit my job and give other workers a chance?
I enjoy my well-paid job. However, as I live off a private family income, I don’t actually need to work, so I gift-aid my entire wage. Recently, the wages department accidentally let slip this to the entire firm. Now my co-workers say it's selfish of me to have a full-time job when I don't really need it, and that I’m depriving someone else of work. Should I give up my job to satisfy those who think it should go to someone who really needs it? Or do I carry on, knowing my wages are probably helping a great number of people in desperate need?Click 'reply' to have your say
Sorry. but I find it hard to believe that someone like yourself who is financially well off,would be using MSE unless you are really Mr Lewis.Its a bit like a Billionaire using a comparison site for insurance.0 -
I think that you should give up paid work and instead work for charities as a volunteer. That way everyone is happy, you free up a job and the charities still get their donations. You still get the benefits of work.0
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I've found people that don't have to work for the money can often give a better service because they are there because they WANT to be there not because they HAVE to be.
Management need to treat you with respect otherwise they could end up having to replace you; there may be long job queues but they all need a training/settling period. The first thing management need to do is ensure all staff are aware of personal privacy issues and offer you an apology.
My choice would be part time so you can enjoy spending some of your cash when the rest of the world is working.
Enjoy your life whatever you choose to do with it.0 -
If you want to continue to work then you should do so.
Alternatively do some charity work instead.
There are loads of people that do not need to work and still do. Unfortunately I am NOT one of these people :-)0 -
I fully believe that you should do what you like and gives you satisfaction in life - you only live once so if you're happier working than not working then nothing else should come into it. It's not your job to keep everyone happy, especially not jealous colleagues or people who have no right to comment.
But even looking at it another way, if you leave, you will perhaps change the life of one person by opening up a job. If you stay, and continue to donate what I imagine is thousands of pounds per year to charity, then (obviously depending on which charities) you could be changing the lives of hundreds.
No brainer.0 -
Firstly someone in the wages department has been very unprofesional by letting others know your personnel details.I'm sure that could be gross misconduct which should create a job for someone.I think this is all about envy and jealousy,it's none of their bussines so carry on doing what makes you happy.Your clearly a caring,considerate and very giving person,seriously,well done.This is your life and your money to do with as you please.There are loads of people that work who are very financially secure,they do this because it gives them satisfaction and enjoyment in life,plus many other things.Stay where you are and carry on enjoying life.0
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I'd make a point of making an official complaint with the head of the HR department, or their superior.
As others have said, it's gross misconduct to divulge personal information about employee. This could lead to the employee(s) being disciplined, or removed from the company as a result.
All I can say is, I envy you, not only for being able to be in that position, but for not being greedy and banking the money when you don't need it.
You're in a great position, not only does it benefit you, but as a Tax Payer, you are already donating your entire wage, but you're also donating the Gift Aid that is applicable.
All I can say is, make sure the HR dept are reprimanded for the gross misconduct and keep on enjoying what you do!0 -
Stay in your post. You obviously enjoy your work (priceless). I applaud your charity donation. I make a small one each month from my salary and ran Race for Life the last 2 years, but wish I could afford to do more. I am currently on Medical Suspension since 2nd October 2012. I get paid my full time salary without actually having to go to work. I have been paying off debts and have a better standard of living for myself and my children. I give my time to community projects on my Estate and with my Housing Association. For the first time in my life I can indulge my love of the theatre and go to reasonably priced matinee performances.
I am only a qualified Nursery Nurse, so my salary is modest, but it is luxurious compared to being on benefits.
You are making a huge difference both as a committed employee and charity giver. Keep up your good work. You and Martin Lewis are both as commendable as each other0 -
Data protection and gross incompetence - official complaint and take them to the cleaners. Walk away and donate that money if you wish, or like others have said set up a small business. Then donate your time and skills to a charity for free - hence potentially saving them a salary they might have to pay. All depends on your attitude and location. You are very lucky and seem to have a good head and heart, so best of luck.0
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Sorry. but I find it hard to believe that someone like yourself who is financially well off,would be using MSE unless you are really Mr Lewis.Its a bit like a Billionaire using a comparison site for insurance.
OK barring the ludicrous idea that its me ie people know my income. Actually this assumption that is very wrong.
From past polls we know MSE has substantial number of affluent and very affluent users (roughly in proportion to their number in society) - having money doesn't mean you like to waste it.Martin Lewis, Money Saving Expert.
Please note, answers don't constitute financial advice, it is based on generalised journalistic research. Always ensure any decision is made with regards to your own individual circumstance.Don't miss out on urgent MoneySaving, get my weekly e-mail at www.moneysavingexpert.com/tips.Debt-Free Wannabee Official Nerd Club: (Honorary) Members number 0000
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