Finally - deep breath - Zulu Dawn SOA

Zulu_Dawn

Well I think my DFW days are likely to become a bit more intense!

I've just received an e-mail from my wife to say that she wants me to move out. Fundamentally I can't deal with recovering from my addiction, dealing with the debt and giving sufficient love to her.

Bu**er.

lynzpower

OH god

Is it normal that you communicate via email Zulu for something like this!?

What do you want to do?

blackangeluk

Really sorry to read that Zulu, sounds a stupid question to ask how you feel. Hope you can work through this.

Snaggles

Oh god Zulu, I'm really sorry to hear that, I do hope you can work it out.

Tashja

ZD ((BIG HUGS)

I hope you can sort this out.

T xx

PurpleTeddyBear

:eek: Goodness me Zulu --- and pardon the question, but an email?!?!

Hope you can work through this, and we're all here to help however we can, with virtual shoulders and all that.

Best wishes

Purps x

SarahNeedle1872

Sorry to hear that Zulu - big hugs from me. How come an email tho? Do u normally communicate this way?

Sarah x

atypicalblonde

Please post again when you're ready ZD and let us know how you are x

*vanessa*

Just to say , How sorry I am, to hear your news. You seemed to be doing so well too. Take Care. Vanessa

Crown

Hi Mate, Sorry to hear your news but dont let your addiction get the better of you. you know you in the end the problem is still going to be there so there is no point. I too now spend a lot of time on my debt as I think it helps us forget our problems. I dont know the answer but stay strong and pick the phone up if you need additional support or get to a meeting.

Have you sat down and spoke to your wife how you feel about it and is she aware what pressure you feel under contending with the issues you have raised? I dont mean to pry but are you actually listening to her side of the story when it comes to her feelings regarding the debts. We do have a way of being control freaks.

I know you said you would not speak of your addiction again on this site and I respect that but would hate to see the hard work you have put in all go tits up ina moment of weakness.