Has he/you ever forgotten your anniversary?

sterl1ng

So far bf hasn't said anything and although we aren't married 4trs is not to be sniffed at!

burnoutbabe

4 years since what?

I just ask bf "ohh what shall we do this weekend, its the anniversary of when we met" so he knows we are doing something!

System

He always remembers our anniversary (though I never get a card) but he never remembers my birthday which is the day before our anniversary.

celyn90

Yes. I forget every year.... I know, I'm rubbish

OH is more likely to remember than me. Mind you, we don't do anniversary gifts, we buy something together we can both use/benefit from.

I couldn't tell you date we first met either

And I still have to check his passport to make sure I get his birthday right...

I have a box of cards for all occasions indoors as I know how rubbish I am at this sort of thing. My mum and two siblings all have birthdays within a week of each other, so each years I send everything on the same day a week before. I couldn't tell you who was born on which day without checking.

Likewise I don't care if people remember mine

Mojisola

sterl1ng wrote: »

So far bf hasn't said anything and although we aren't married 4trs is not to be sniffed at!

Have you done anything on the previous three anniversaries?

sterl1ng

I'm not one for getaways and neither is he just nice to get acknowledgment as he has in past said happy anniversary. Perhaps it get stale after a while saying it

sterl1ng

A box of cards for all occasions??? Now that's organised

Torry_Quine

My husband has never forgotten our anniversary and neither have I. I really don't understand how hard it is to write it down if you can't remember without that.

OP - anniversary of what?

Always have cards in or when I can't make one of for non-predictable things.

sterl1ng

Mojisola wrote: »

Have you done anything on the previous three anniversaries?

I use to take day off work but this time figured I just come in so perhaps he sees that I'm not fussed.

HeadAboveWater

I won't let OH forget our anniversary!! It does mean that I'm mentioning it at least once a week for the 2 months prior with a 'what are we doing?', but never mind!!

I can rhyme off all his girls DOBs no bother, yet he can't! So can't really say much when he can't remember mine! Again, it's a weekly reminder for the 2 months prior!

Mojisola

sterl1ng wrote: »

I use to take day off work but this time figured I just come in so perhaps he sees that I'm not fussed.

Talk to him about it. If you want the two of you to celebrate, make sure he knows!