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Cancelling a bid

I listed some items Saturday and today checked how they was doing, Ive had a message off someone who bid on one of the items saying
'hello :)

could i please cancel my bid of 3.00 pound on this item
thankyou

x'

No explanation as to why. so damn annoying! so do I cancel or just leave it? surely once u have bid u have entered in to an agreement??
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  • As annoying as it is, you're probably best cancelling it rather than leaving it and then having trouble down the line should they win the item.
  • Goldiegirl
    Goldiegirl Posts: 8,806 Forumite
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    If someone 'bids in error' they can retract a bid.

    I would reply, suggesting that they retract the bid themselves.

    They'd also go straight on my blocked bidder list, I always block people who retract bids on the basis that they are messing me around.
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  • chickywiggle
    chickywiggle Posts: 5,203 Forumite
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    i agree - it is very annoying. unless the item has less then 24 hours to run i would tell them to cancel the bid themselves and put them on my blocked list.

    I'd listed an item the other day with got a bid on in the last couple of hours. followed by a message half hour later telling me her child had got hold of her phone and bid on 10 things could i retract the bid.
    short answer - no (as less them 24 hours left), then opened a NPB case against them and got them a strike on their account.

    tough - yes, but there are enough screens to click tho to bid on something if you are doing it personally. or if your child actually has done it call it a good lesson in phone/ ebay security and take it out their pocket money!
    loves how my "I've been censored" signature has been censored. LOL. Happy Christmas. :xmastree:
  • Hollie84
    Hollie84 Posts: 2,428 Forumite
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    Thanks, she has 11 feedback, only set up account in march, I seem to be getting a lot of messers or non payers lately, My blocked list is growing rapidly
  • forgotmyname
    forgotmyname Posts: 32,956 Forumite
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    Tell them you dont know how, They need to retract their bid themselves.
    Censorship Reigns Supreme in Troll City...

  • flutterby_lil
    flutterby_lil Posts: 1,879 Forumite
    How do you block people,I need to know! Didn't know you could lol.
  • Hollie84
    Hollie84 Posts: 2,428 Forumite
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    I have told her yesterday she can retract the bid, her bid is still active today so if she don't cancel I guess I will be opening a NPB if she don't pay either.
  • RainbowDrops
    RainbowDrops Posts: 4,674 Forumite
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    If they don'e retract their bid and it's getting close to the end of the auction (just before 12hrs to go), I would cancel it for them.
    Easier than gointh through the NPB hassle, and you're more likely to sell it to someone else sooner.
  • alykatz
    alykatz Posts: 927 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    If they don'e retract their bid and it's getting close to the end of the auction (just before 12hrs to go), I would cancel it for them.
    Easier than gointh through the NPB hassle, and you're more likely to sell it to someone else sooner.
    I have to agree with this tbh, its far easier and a lot less hassle.

    Block bidders here:
    http://offer.ebay.co.uk/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?BidderBlockLogin
  • Hollie84
    Hollie84 Posts: 2,428 Forumite
    Ninth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Ive had no contact for days after asking them to cancel it themselves as I don't know how, I have woken to 4 essay emails today filled with info copied and pasted from ebay and a link for me to cancel the bid lol persistent I will give her that, she has said she will have to fill in a form etc etc and that I should do it, if she knows how to do it then just cancel it instead of wasting time sending 4 emails to me, she has threatened non payment if I don't cancel which TBH im not bothered about, I have no other watchers on the item and im not desperate to sell it, its only a box set dvd. Told her if she has figured out how to cancel which it sounds like she has then just cancel, not paying will lead to a strike on her account. so will see what happens, she has no legitimate reason why she wants to cancel!
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