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My daughter 12, regularly gets upset at her failings in spelling.

Having just looked at some of her emails to and from friends, call me paranoid, I'm not F%c&ing surprised. I know I've looked previously, but not one single word spelt correctly or un-shortened.

I have a sneaking suspicion the next time she says, "I can't spell......." the sympathy vote may just fly out the window,

And I do not blame the teachers, I blame myself and every other parent that lets them get away with.

:mad: but going to have a :beer: .

soz flkz:D
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  • Nelski
    Nelski Posts: 15,197 Forumite
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    Bet U do it 2 though!!:D
  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    Nelski wrote:
    Bet U do it 2 though!!:D

    I'm an expert, "bt u d i 2 tho", a massive saving of 6 text characters, nearly 50%:D
  • Nelski
    Nelski Posts: 15,197 Forumite
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    Al_Mac wrote:
    I'm an expert, "bt u d i 2 tho", a massive saving of 6 text characters, nearly 50%:D

    The apple never falls far from the tree!!!!
  • Al_Mac
    Al_Mac Posts: 5,519 Forumite
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    Nelski wrote:
    The apple never falls far from the tree!!!!

    I think I've just been crushed, what a way to go, thanks Nel.

    :j
    Don't you have a thread to revive.:confused:
  • Nelski
    Nelski Posts: 15,197 Forumite
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    True. ...........................................................

    Sorted.
  • Fran
    Fran Posts: 11,280 Forumite
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    no wot u mn

    When I text my kids I make a point of doing full words and putting in grammar, capitals etc..... it might be the only time they see it from other people!! :confused:
    Torgwen.......... :) ...........
  • IvanOpinion
    IvanOpinion Posts: 22,131 Forumite
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    I can understand the use of abbreviations on mobile phones but I hate it on emails... particularly business emails. If it is a private email I seem to have no problem understanding the abbreviations but in a business secenario I think it is very unprofessional to use the abbreviated form. I always plead stupidity (easy) and send the email back to the person saying I don't understand it. If I am in a particularly playful mood I just respond with NFIWYM (No F**** Idea What You Mean) or some other inane sequence of characters which means the originator spends ages trying to figure out what I am saying.

    I do agree though that levels of spelling and grammar are plummeting ... you only have to look at many of the posts on this, and other, boards for evidence.

    Ivan
    I don't care about your first world problems; I have enough of my own!
  • divadee
    divadee Posts: 10,609 Forumite
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    This is one of pet hates. I occasionaly might shorten too or two to 2 and you to u but only when i am running out of space and to stingy to send 2 messages. But when i get some completely shortened text message i cant understand a word it says.

    My daughter is to young to have a mobile yet, so havent had to have this from here and she is an excellent speller as well, so hopefully she wont start shortening words when/if i buy her a mobile.
  • Sheel
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    Fran wrote:
    no wot u mn

    When I text my kids I make a point of doing full words and putting in grammar, capitals etc..... it might be the only time they see it from other people!! :confused:

    Oh , I don't suppose you've been impressed with my texts then? :rolleyes:

    I make it up as I go along when I text , my family frequently say they can't understand the majority of my messages :o
    Same old same old since 2008

  • Fran
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    Sheel wrote:
    Oh , I don't suppose you've been impressed with my texts then? :rolleyes:

    I make it up as I go along when I text , my family frequently say they can't understand the majority of my messages :o
    Sheel I don't care what you say in your texts cos I don't expect to influence your spelling!!!! :beer:
    One of my kids has problems with spelling though and any properly spelt words might help (or not!). On my phone it's hard to shorten some things anyway so I end up putting full words rather than go to another screen, alter it and back just to do a shortened word (ie go from predictive to abc or numbers & back).
    Torgwen.......... :) ...........
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