Can anyone recommend...?

snowmaid

grex80 wrote: »

He was asking me for advice as his relationship is otherwise very good with this girl - and personally I think he's being very understanding by not simply just walking away.

All i'm asking for is advice on how he can improve things, not judgement on the state of his relationship.

:eek: Wot?!?!?!? 'personally I think he's being very understanding :rotfl: :rotfl:

Maybe he is just !!!!!!!!! And just maybe his previous girls were being kind and faked it so as not to hurt his feelings! :rotfl:

Honestly, :rolleyes: these men who think that a woman has to be 'grateful' for their ummm....fumbled attempts and then get pee'd off because the girl is 'inexperienced' !! Maybe he should consider 'doing it' with a girl who charges by the hour and has more 'experience'! However, there are plenty of girls who would do same for free, although he may end up with more than just an experienced 'blowj*b'!

And girls used to be appreciated for being inexperienced!

Jet

grex80 wrote: »

He was asking me for advice as his relationship is otherwise very good with this girl - and personally I think he's being very understanding by not simply just walking away.

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If they're able to have sex together, then they're able to talk - or at least they should be!

If she's very inexperienced, then why isn't he glad to be able to "teach" her?

Is it that she's "inexperienced" or just not into whatever he is into? If it's the former, they can talk and sort it out, if it's the latter, then they simply may be incompatible but they need to talk about it before anyone can make a decision.

keelykat

Hello, i think maybe he should be talking to his gf about this-not you! although i understand why people go to friends for advice etc. I don't understand how their sex life can be so bad so early on, maybe the chemistry isn't there and they are better as friends....or maybe she's shy and hasn't spoken up about what turns her on etc? Could be many things, but talking to each other is the key.

Keely.x

Oldernotwiser

It's the idea that this guy thinks that sex has gone "stale" after a couple of months that gets me! Long term relationships sometimes need "spicing up" a bit (although by no means always) but for two young people who've only been together for a matter of weeks, it's a crazy idea.

Scarlett1

grex80 wrote: »

Hi,

A mate (honest!) has asked if there's any good websites he can use to research how to have better sex with his partner as she is v. inexperienced, and it's really getting to him that they've only been together a matter of months and it's already getting stale.

He's not really able to buy books etc as she could find them and that may hurt her feelings etc - he's just looking for some tips, ideas and suggestions.

Any ideas guys?

Thanks.

maybe your friend needs to talk to his girlfriend and ask her why she isnt learning quick enough, maybe she isnt into him enough to bother

wolfehouse

it does sound like a relationship problem.
the organisation relate are very good with these things including sex matters. they have the ability to help over the internet.

http://www.relate.org.uk/

tosca5

Scarlett1 wrote: »

maybe your friend needs to talk to his girlfriend and ask her why she isnt learning quick enough, maybe she isnt into him enough to bother

hahaha...he sounds like he thinks he's 'gods gift' in bed :rolleyes:
God, men that think ''there all that'':mad:



Maybe...............she is just lying there bored stiff...:D

tosca5

wolfehouse wrote: »

it does sound like a relationship problem.
the organisation relate are very good with these things including sex matters. they have the ability to help over the internet.

http://www.relate.org.uk/

No i don't think it's a relationship problem at all. It's just a guy that thinks he is so 'super experienced' and his GF is crap in bed.
He needs to get a life and if he is 'all that' then he can spend his time teaching her...not having to read a book about it all.

Scarlett1

tosca5 wrote: »

hahaha...he sounds like he thinks he's 'gods gift' in bed :rolleyes:
God, men that think ''there all that'':mad:



Maybe...............she is just lying there bored stiff...:D

and thinking about what to cook for tea :rotfl:

tosca5

Scarlett1 wrote: »

and thinking about what to cook for tea :rotfl:

Aye, and how amazing the bloke the night before was............:D