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neverdespairgirl wrote: »OP, you could use this situation as a way of stepping back and looking at your life.
Were you born in 1986? So you are 26, 27 year old?
You already have a son, and aren't with his mother, then you have a 8 month relationship which involves you cheating and a possible extra pregnancy?
Sounds like a story line from EastEnders - and I don't think that's a very positive thing.
Im 27 and have 3 kids, why is that a bad thing?0 -
Im 27 and have 3 kids, why is that a bad thing?
Nope.
I find it a bit alarming, though, that this OP has 1 son by 1 woman, some sort of near-pregnancy with another woman, who he was only seeing for 8 months, and during that time cheated on her, and the woman herself already had 2 children. That's what's East Enders about it....much enquiry having been made concerning a gentleman, who had quitted a company where Johnson was, and no information being obtained; at last Johnson observed, that 'he did not care to speak ill of any man behind his back, but he believed the gentleman was an attorney'.0 -
If you have been looking elsewhere then you can't be happy in your relationship, that alone would suggest that it would be kindest to all concerned for you both to move on for good.
Did she lie about being pregnant to try and make you stay with her?
If you truly think that she is a risk to herself or her children then you really should do what other posters have suggested and have a chat with social services. Beyond that, it's not really your concern and keep picking the relationship up won't do anyone any good.
Good luck.0
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