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Abusive relationships-now out of but !!!! !!!! !!!! !!!!!!! !!!!!!! !!!!!!!

BAD day.................:money::D
If you don't leap, you'll never know what it is to fly :heartpuls
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  • duckeggblue
    duckeggblue Posts: 439 Forumite
    Those words were f.. And bar steward
    If you don't leap, you'll never know what it is to fly :heartpuls
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    It will get easier with time.. ((hugs))
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  • duckeggblue
    duckeggblue Posts: 439 Forumite
    Aargh...........................
    If you don't leap, you'll never know what it is to fly :heartpuls
  • duckeggblue
    duckeggblue Posts: 439 Forumite
    It's mostly very very very good but friends away and !!!!
    If you don't leap, you'll never know what it is to fly :heartpuls
  • BitterAndTwisted
    BitterAndTwisted Posts: 22,492 Forumite
    10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    What's the point of starting a thread full of swear-words no-one can read and nothing much else?
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    edited 29 June 2013 at 6:54PM
    Sorry to hear you are having a bad day, sending you a huge (((HUG))). Keep reminding yourself that no day from now on, will ever be as bad as ones you endured whilst you were in the abusive relationship.

    You are a strong, independent woman capable of running your own life. You had enough sense of self worth to leave a relationship that was detrimental to you on so many levels. Stay calm and consider that the way you treat yourself sets the standard for others on how you wish to be treated. Don't settle for anything less than respect.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • ecgirl07
    ecgirl07 Posts: 662 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    What's the point of starting a thread full of swear-words no-one can read and nothing much else?

    why not sometimes life is AHHHHHHHHHHH!
  • duckeggblue
    duckeggblue Posts: 439 Forumite
    What's the point of starting a thread full of swear-words no-one can read and nothing much else?

    What's the point in abuse?
    If you don't leap, you'll never know what it is to fly :heartpuls
  • duckeggblue
    duckeggblue Posts: 439 Forumite
    Luckily , bitter and twisted, you'll never experience it , so you'll never get the point or understand. X
    If you don't leap, you'll never know what it is to fly :heartpuls
  • paulineb_2
    paulineb_2 Posts: 6,489 Forumite
    I think possibly someone was just asking why you had a bad day and its up to you if you want to elaborate.

    As for someone not experiencing it, none of us know what people have been through really.

    Its not easy. Ive been in two abusive relationships, not physically, mentally and it does scar you, but time is the only thing that helps you move forward.
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