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please help benifits for my daughter mum to be.

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  • Morlock
    Morlock Posts: 3,265 Forumite
    Gentile wrote: »
    The government handouts are very generous towards pregnant women etc

    Please enlighten me as to which government handouts pregnant women receive.
  • paddedjohn
    paddedjohn Posts: 7,512 Forumite
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    ILW wrote: »
    Is she getting cash from the father?

    Why would she? The kid isn't born yet.
    Be Alert..........Britain needs lerts.
  • quailpower
    quailpower Posts: 128 Forumite
    It might be worth signing on to JSA (income based)

    Although because she is working she wouldnt get any money - but by being on an income based benefit she could then apply for the Sure Start Maternity Grant, and the Maternity Vouchers (used to be health in pregnancy). It is also possibly worth contacting your local council to see what they offer as a Crisis Loan alternative.
  • pmlindyloo
    pmlindyloo Posts: 13,093 Forumite
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    quailpower wrote: »
    It might be worth signing on to JSA (income based)

    Although because she is working she wouldnt get any money - but by being on an income based benefit she could then apply for the Sure Start Maternity Grant, and the Maternity Vouchers (used to be health in pregnancy). It is also possibly worth contacting your local council to see what they offer as a Crisis Loan alternative.


    She cannot sign on for JSA as she is working 16 hrs.
  • harrys_dad
    harrys_dad Posts: 1,997 Forumite
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    Gentile wrote: »
    How can people in this country be so cruel that they cannot find some space in their house for their own pregnant and vulnerable daughter ?

    The government handouts are very generous towards pregnant women etc but to be thinking of getting rid of your own daughter when she needs you most is just so wrong.

    I blame Labour for this. Values have dropped dramatically.

    Well done for upsetting yet another poster asking for help, without knowing the full circumstances. I have just read through a number of your earlier posts and they are similarly unhelpful and usually critical. If you don't have anything constructive and useful to say why bother saying anything? Keep your overtly political rants to yourself. I just hope you don't ever need help some time in the future because even the good samaritan might pass on the other side while you try and fail to pull yourself up by your own bootstraps.
  • ILW
    ILW Posts: 18,333 Forumite
    paddedjohn wrote: »
    Why would she? The kid isn't born yet.

    Because she is virtually homeless and carrying his child?
  • rhosynbach
    rhosynbach Posts: 7,664 Forumite
    ILW wrote: »
    Is she getting cash from the father?

    no he has quit his job and taken up drugs and other stuff since they split so not going to be much joy there,
    harrys_dad wrote: »
    Well done for upsetting yet another poster asking for help, without knowing the full circumstances. I have just read through a number of your earlier posts and they are similarly unhelpful and usually critical. If you don't have anything constructive and useful to say why bother saying anything? Keep your overtly political rants to yourself. I just hope you don't ever need help some time in the future because even the good samaritan might pass on the other side while you try and fail to pull yourself up by your own bootstraps.


    thank you i feel better that it is not just me that gets such harsh treatment..
  • couponqueen123
    couponqueen123 Posts: 2,393 Forumite
    hey rose ,

    she needs to contact the job center and book an apointment to see an adviser they will put her in contact with what shes ENTITLED TO ,

    hope shes feeling ok and baby (oh and nanny) , times might seem hard at moment but will soon pass.

    can u aford to help her rent privatley,

    and some ppl think reciving benifts is having handouts , but lets make a few points clear

    1, most have paied in to the pot ,

    2. we are a nation that helps our every-one

    3.being pregnant dosnt give instant housing or money , just more likley .


    all the benefit haters i hope u never have to be in that position -
  • Marker_2
    Marker_2 Posts: 3,260 Forumite
    Can she up her hours or get another part time job? 16 hours is not alot of hours and certainly not enough pay to substantiate a life.

    Also get her name on the housing list, you should get extra points for overcrowding.
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  • rhosynbach
    rhosynbach Posts: 7,664 Forumite
    hey rose ,

    she needs to contact the job center and book an apointment to see an adviser they will put her in contact with what shes ENTITLED TO ,

    hope shes feeling ok and baby (oh and nanny) , times might seem hard at moment but will soon pass.

    can u aford to help her rent privatley,

    and some ppl think reciving benifts is having handouts , but lets make a few points clear

    1, most have paied in to the pot ,

    2. we are a nation that helps our every-one

    3.being pregnant dosnt give instant housing or money , just more likley .


    all the benefit haters i hope u never have to be in that position -


    thank you for the help and advice couponqueen we are looking into seeing what we can do to help and she is going to go to the job centre tomorrow.
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