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At what age did your teen get a weekend/holiday job?

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  • gibson123
    gibson123 Posts: 1,733 Forumite
    I worked at 13, we were a skint family, my first wage was spent on the first new clothes I had every had apart from school uniforms (4 older sisters) I would not want my DD to work before 16. Kids are under so much pressure nowadays that I would be worried that she would be put under additional pressure.
  • Katexx
    Katexx Posts: 189 Forumite
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    I don't know anyone who worked before the age of 16, I don't think...except for the odd paper-round...I don't even know of anywhere around here (other than for paper-rounds) who would employ people under the age of 16, tbh.

    I didn't get a job until I left college, when I was 17. Just for 6 weeks or so until I moved away for university. I tried (admittedly rather half-heartedly) to get a job throughout college at local shops and stuff, but didn't even get a single response. I was pretty quiet and shy and think I would've been awful at retail anyway lol. And I had £30/week EMA so I didn't really feel like I needed a job.
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  • Grumpygit
    Grumpygit Posts: 362 Forumite
    I had a part time job at 14 saturdays and some times after school which was fine and never impacted on my school work or the grades I got.

    DD will be 14 in January and we will encourage her to get a job (if she can find one). She is getting a scooter for christmas/birthday so she will have to find a job to pay for the petrol!
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    I haven't got to the stage of packing my sons off to work yet. They are just 7 and 10. However when they are in their early to mid teens I will definately be encouraging it.

    I got my first Saturday job when I was just 13. I worked in a little shop, 9am-2pm and loved it. I saved all my earnings up for months on end and bought my first dog when I had enough put by. A gorgeous but crazy spaniel who had mince for brains and could not be trained. I loved it to bits anyway and it felt like a huge achievement to have bought it all by myself.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • Savvy_Sue
    Savvy_Sue Posts: 47,503 Forumite
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    DS1 did the free papers when he was 13, then progressed to daily delivery of the local rag (it paid better!). Gave that up after a couple of years after his bike was taken off him by some of the local horrors. At 17 he went to work for the local cinema which was a FANTASTIC job, when they were quiet he could read or do his homework - and get paid for it! He got middling GCSE grades (excellent in the subjects he thought were important) and excellent A levels, then a 1st.

    DS2 did the free papers from 13 and a Sunday morning round from soon after, then progressed to the cinema, but he only gave up the Sunday papers when he went to Uni. Better than middling GCSE grades, excellent A levels, another 1st.

    DS3 thought the paper rounds were too much like hard work, and didn't get a job until the cinema asked if he would like to work for them. :rotfl: Middling GCSE grades (but better than we'd feared at one point!), excellent A levels, and hoping to get a 1st next year ...

    I don't think it harmed their education.
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  • nickj_2
    nickj_2 Posts: 7,052 Forumite
    my eldest daughter started a saturday job when she was 14 , she worked at a barn selling animal feed , only paid about £3-00ph , but she was happy with that as there were a couple of mates there , however she then asked at out local hotel if they needed any waitresses and they gave her a job , paid £5ph + tips , this was for a sunday, and 1 evening + weddings etc on saturdays , when she left school she went to college , but only for 2 days when she wasn't there or doing college work at home she worked at the hotel , cleaning/servicing rooms , reception , , as she proved herself as very hard working and reliable they upped her hourly rate , some weeks she is bringing home £300 and she has saved several thousand £s , in june she's off abroad to work for " a top travel agent ", although tbh the pay she will be getting from them is a pitance , bu8t it's what she wants to do
  • marisco_2
    marisco_2 Posts: 4,261 Forumite
    If children are in full time education, the clue is in the name - full time education

    Making them get a job while at school is exploitative and a complete failure of duty

    Sorry, but in Poland, we value education. Children working is unheard of.

    No-one made me get my Saturday job, it was something I really wanted to do for myself. It enabled me to learn a number of useful skills and gave me valuable experience. My parents certainly didn't fail in their duty of care toward me. I left school with top grades, sailed through A levels, got into Uni and earnt a degree and have never looked back.

    In the UK we value education too. Children working is heard of because we also value life experience.
    The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own, no apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your life really begins.
  • hm71_2
    hm71_2 Posts: 1,980 Forumite
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    edited 15 May 2013 at 8:46PM
    If I might make a suggestion- as already pointed out there are a lot of rules & regs on employment for under 16s now.
    but my youngest did a refereeing course it was £75 for the course and she can ref youth games so any game upto under 12.
    mini-soccer pays £12 a game which is 40mins duration she does 2 of these on sundays so £24 earned. they older the players the more the pay under 12s is £18 a game but they are an hour long if your child is sporting may be worth looking into i know refs are in short supply around here.

    Also i worked from 14 in a friend of my dads restaurant good money at the time and i have worked all my life untill my first heart attack at 39. But i encouraged my children to work if they wanted things one of my daughters used to come and help me working in a hotel when she was 14 only on sat/sun morning but it taught her to earn money for what you need.
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  • justme111
    justme111 Posts: 3,531 Forumite
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    I am reading it and realise I have to start moving in the right direction with my 8yp from now :D
    The word "dilemma" comes from Greek where "di" means two and "lemma" means premise. Refers usually to difficult choice between two undesirable options.
    Often people seem to use this word mistakenly where "quandary" would fit better.
  • I started work literally about two weeks past turning 16, for £3 p/h in a uni canteen over the summer holidays - was awful but a good life lesson!
    I love food, hate waste and have a penchant for sparkly things ::D

    Trying to find a work life balance...:rotfl:
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