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teenage son no longer wants to come away with me

my dad has booked a family holiday for us to spain in ten weeks for four adults and four children my teenage son no longer wants to come will my dad lose all his money if i cancel my son off the holiday?
he has decided he wants to stay with his dad
:confused::confused::confused:
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  • jpsartre
    jpsartre Posts: 4,095 Forumite
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    Depends on the terms and conditions of the holiday. Pick up the phone and ask whomever you (or your Dad) booked from.
  • bluepricey
    bluepricey Posts: 809 Forumite
    thanks have only just found out so not told my dad yet was hoping to say only lost deposit etc
    :confused::confused::confused:
  • peachyprice
    peachyprice Posts: 22,346 Forumite
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    Can you change his name to someone else, another child's friend, another family member, a friend for you?

    Otherwise it's going to take your son an awful long time to pay his grandad back the money he's wasted booking a holiday for him ;)
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  • peachyprice
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    bluepricey wrote: »
    thanks have only just found out so not told my dad yet was hoping to say only lost deposit etc


    At 10 weeks it's likely you'll lose all of the money paid for your son. Do you know who it's booked with, you may be able to find the T&C's online before you tell your dad.
    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • Mr_Wang
    Mr_Wang Posts: 1,302 Forumite
    I'd tell the ungrateful little so and so he can cover any monies lost.
  • bluepricey
    bluepricey Posts: 809 Forumite
    thomas cook
    :confused::confused::confused:
  • peachyprice
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    Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear
  • System
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    It sounds like the booking was made without any consultation. The booker needs to take the loss if any - he should have asked first, not assumed.
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  • peachyprice
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    !!!!!! wrote: »
    It sounds like the booking was made without any consultation. The booker needs to take the loss if any - he should have asked first, not assumed.

    Where did you get that from?

    I think OP meant she has only just found out her son no longer wants to go, not that she's only just found out her dad has booked it?
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  • System
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    edited 10 May 2013 at 8:03PM
    I interpreted it as the latter.. Even so, was the son actually asked whether he wanted to go or was he told that he was going?

    I am assuming older teenager (15+) so was he consulted? At that sort of age a family holiday with younger siblings and grandparents would not be high on a boy's list of things to do in the Summer holidays.
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