Should I let sleeping dogs lie?

carefullycautious

if they cared about you they could easily contact you. I would be asking myself why they haven't tried

Has your wife got good parents who will be good role models

Goldiegirl

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You were unhappy with them, it destroyed part of your life, what the hell makes you think that it is soooo important that another young innocent child gets that forced onto them as well??

I just don't get this... people who have misserable existences due to third parties suddenly believe they MUST allow an innocent child to quite possibly, if not surely to go through the same.

Sorry for the rant. But that is how I feel.
OP if they never contacted you, I am 99% sure that she is not sober and/or does not believe that she is the problem.

That's exactly what I was thinking.

The OP doesn't seem to have got any happiness from his relationship with his parents, so what benefit would there be for his child to be involved with the grandparents.

Look to your future happiness, leave the past in the past where it belongs

meritaten

I think you would like to know if your mother has 'sorted herself out' and will then base your decisions on that.
is there not a family member you could approach? or a neighbour? just to find out what's happened to her.