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Ebay feedback blackmail

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  • Quackers
    Quackers Posts: 10,157 Forumite
    stevew8975 wrote: »
    And you could always meet a buyer like this!!

    OMG - Some of those are really funny.

    I like:

    Collecting in person was fine but its been days now+you really must leave !!!

    and:

    In the cornflake bowl of life this buyer has been more sugar sprinkled than most

    and:

    So nice I want to pickle her in formaldehyde + keep her in a jar.

    :rotfl:I could read them all night :)
    Sometimes it's important to work for that pot of gold...But other times it's essential to take time off and to make sure that your most important decision in the day simply consists of choosing which color to slide down on the rainbow...
  • StaffsSW
    StaffsSW Posts: 5,788 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    This guy left loads of weird comments until he received a slapped wrist from eBay for it. You need to scroll down about 3/4 of the page for the good comments to start.

    Here's another weirdo with a random sense of humour.

    And another!!

    And finally the legend that is Mr Bo**ox!!

    I guess that's the board quiet for a few hours while they are being read!!
    <--- Nothing to see here - move along --->
  • FloFlo
    FloFlo Posts: 32,720 Forumite
    stevew8975 wrote: »
    This guy left loads of weird comments until he received a slapped wrist from eBay for it. You need to scroll down about 3/4 of the page for the good comments to start.

    Here's another weirdo with a random sense of humour.
    And another!!

    And finally the legend that is Mr Bo**ox!!

    I guess that's the board quiet for a few hours while they are being read!!

    I liked this one from him:
    Roses are red, violets are blue, Tandy makes sucky computers, I sell them to you

    Ebay should have left him alone,:rotfl:
  • Mozette
    Mozette Posts: 2,247 Forumite
    Oh these are brilliant, thanks for the links. Will I ever to get to bed tonight now?
  • Mozette
    Mozette Posts: 2,247 Forumite
    Oh yeah, the actual thread... I think a reasonable person will be reasonable regardless, but a d1ckhead will always find a way to be a d1ckhead.
    Must admit, I tend to think if you pay promptly, good feedback. What else do you need a buyer to do? Mind you, I like to think I'm reasonable!
  • kevinyork
    kevinyork Posts: 1,232 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    This is an old chestnut and comes up almost weekly. You will never get people agreeing. All I can say is as a seller Ive come across sooooo many incredibly annoying buyers to know I would NEVER leave feedback for a buyer first. Those that do will one day get their fingers burnt for sure. I got a negative only last week from a buyer who had to pay an excess charge and pick up the item I sent from his Post Office Depot. The PO label must have come off in transit.

    I sent him the copy of my receipt showing Id paid to send it and he calmed down and we did a mutual feedback withdrawal (after I negged him for being unreasonable). Had I giving him feedback for his prompt payment earlier then I would have lost any leverage to get his negative removed.

    For those buyers that are reasonable and think they should get feedback from the seller first, Im afraid the many (P.I.T.A.) buyers out there have ruined any chance of that happening from many sellers.
  • slowen
    slowen Posts: 2,795 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I sell on ebay and never leave feedback for buyers anymore until they have left it for me then I know they have received the goods etc... as I have been stung a few times in the past. When I started out on ebay I left a buyer feedback and then he complanied about the goods which were perfectly fine so he was threatening to leave negative feedback unless I gave him a refund which I told him to get on one.
  • ebay advise that feedback should be left once a transaction reaches a satisfactory conclusion

    so some buyers think that they have completed their bit by paying, is receiving the item not part of their role too?
  • patchwork_cat
    patchwork_cat Posts: 5,874 Forumite
    TBH I think people worry on about getting feedback far too much. The amount of times I have been asked to please give feedback. I do it in a batch can't people wait a few days.

    It is useful for scammers, but they just start again with a new username as soon as f/back gets bad. I have received neg. feedback twice both unfair, but the people that I do make c*ck ups on (genuine errors, but prob. deserve neg) thank god are usually lovely when I hold my hands up.

    I had one sale where everything that could go wrong did on my and PO side, but the buyer was lovely and even came back again a few weeks later.
  • myrtle_2
    myrtle_2 Posts: 501 Forumite
    I give feedback for quick payment whether or not they have the item - I too hate the 'I'll give you positive if you give it me first'.....

    One transaction left me fuming last year, I paid instantly for a cd, didn't receive the item and complained - then got some sort of Ebay message saying that I'd get negative feedback if I didn't complete the transaction by allowing a refund........grrr
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