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Item |I was about to despatch is now broken! Help!

Hi, I was selling a laptop on behalf of a friend who doesnt have an ebay account.

She's phoned me this morning to say that her daughter has broken the screen!!! I havent seen the laptop yet but she assures me its unsellable.

Not sure how I break this news to the buyer. I have a 100% rating & never been negatively rated in over a decade of ebaying (not a prolific seller, mostly a buyer)

Any advice?
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  • cootuk
    cootuk Posts: 878 Forumite
    If it was an auction then the buyer may think you didn't get the price you wanted.
    If BIN then I would be miffed.
    Either way the buyer could neg you...but that's not the point. You now have to do what's right for the buyer.

    I would refund straight away with an apology so at least the buyer can bid on others with money ready.
  • alx2013
    alx2013 Posts: 404 Forumite
    Just come clean and hope you have an understanding buyer - perhaps get a photo of the damage to send to the buyer as well.
  • nobile
    nobile Posts: 574 Forumite
    cootuk wrote: »
    If it was an auction then the buyer may think you didn't get the price you wanted.

    I hadnt thought of that factor. I will explain , and obviously refund in full. Its not even my item!! :( Last time I offer to help out someone without an ebay account
  • alx2013
    alx2013 Posts: 404 Forumite
    I often have relatives who ask me to sell something for them. Trouble is their idea of 'good condition' is not mine! and their expectations are always too high.
    I just say no now...
  • alx2013 wrote: »
    Just come clean and hope you have an understanding buyer - perhaps get a photo of the damage to send to the buyer as well.

    I agree with this.
    I had some boots listed as a 3, when i came to package them up i noticed they were only a 2 :eek:.
    I took photos and sent them to the buyer as proof that i wansst just hoping for a better price. The buyer was great about it and we did a mutual cancellation.
  • RainbowDrops
    RainbowDrops Posts: 4,674 Forumite
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    alx2013 wrote: »
    - perhaps get a photo of the damage to send to the buyer as well.
    '

    I would do this to show that you aren't bluffing.
    And next time, get your friends to set up their own ebay accounts rather than having to deal with their problems.
  • nobile
    nobile Posts: 574 Forumite
    Thanks for all your advice. Its really embarrasing having to send a message informing the buyer of what has happened.


    I think I am expecting to be rated negatively but thats the last time I ever list an item for anyone else.

    I hope the buyer can sort out an alternative soon.

    Again, thanks for your advice.
  • theonlywayisup
    theonlywayisup Posts: 16,032 Forumite
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    Sounds like your friend is having you over, perhaps they were not happy with the price.

    Moral - don't sell for friends.
  • Ralph-y
    Ralph-y Posts: 4,763 Forumite
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    If its an expensive laptop then an offer of a repair may possibly help

    Ralph
  • Moral - don't sell for friends.

    Agreed - people who don't have a computer often don't realise how painfull listing things actually is, and how much the fees are and have heard eBay is some sort of panecea.
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