Depression II

gillette147

My g/f is size 12. My last one was a 10 and she looked too thin. She ended up a size 12 later on.

A size 12 looks like a woman xxx

rose07

Hope everyone has a



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rose07

Hi DD

How are you?

daisy_doughnut_2 wrote: »

hi all
i suffer with depression anxiety and panick attacks and i also have an eating disorder and have self harmed
but i get help i do ok most of the time

Welcome to the family here, i seen you have got support of many soo farr and you are not alone in dealing with this

its my 13 yr old DD last year she self harmed said it was because all the other girls were doing it so we had a long chat and i believed her
yesterday i found out that she has been doing it again the school told me one of her friends who was concerned had told the teacher

It shows that you really care about your DD, she is lucky to have a mum like you. I have self harmed in the passed, and it did start when i was at school being bullied, i convinnced myself that it was my fault they were havin a go at me and so punished myself. your daughter needs to learns that bullies are the weak ones ,, easier said than done tho, took me 6 years to figure that out

i had a chat with my DD an i never realised how unhappy inside she was she is a pretty slim girl but thinks she is fat an ugly her self asteem is shot to bits

Is there anything you can do together to help her self esteem grow?

ive made an appointment with the doc for this afternoon she doesnt want to come she is scared so im going alone but we have talked about councelling an she is willing to give it ago

See this shows you have her best interests at heart, never feel like it is your fault hun, these things happen, but its how we deal with it that matters x

i feel like the worst mother in the world tho how did i not see this happening when ive been there my self my heart feels like its ripping away from my body she is my little girl an in so much emotional pain i cant stop crying an panicking
she is also being bullied at school but ive been in an its all being sorted the school is great i have no qualms
i cant help but blame myself for this tho im her mother i should have seen an protected her
all i keep doin is looking for what may have been the cause was it my breakdown an illness that prevented me from being a proper mother for a while
i love her to bits an she knows that
her father dont give a toss never has so is it that
im so lost confused an hating myself

Oh hun, just want to give you a big hug. She will always be your little girl, how old is she?
Do not blame yourself, you are not to blame, your post shows how much you care for your daughter, you are taking the right steps in making sure she is ok. Just make sure you have support too, as it can get harder.

Keep going

we are all here for you

xxx

rose07

Hi everyone


Tiff, hi Tiff, how are you doing? You will be off away soon for your much needed/deserved rest. Hope you have a lovely time of it . Is your DS still driving you crazee? Tiff wheres that report? Its raining today, lovely weather for wellies;) . And where have all the blue smarties gone, the cupboard is empty:eek: ?


Sazzie, hi hun, how are you? Did you take all the blue smarties? How is your training going? And hows work? I hope you safe and well hun much love x


Rbk Hiya, how are you today? One more day of work then it’s the weekend ☺. Yey.


Ethel, Hi Ethel, I just wanna give you a big hug , sounds like you are having an awful time of it atm. Its ok to feel the way you feel hun. And I firstly thought you were younger than 36 till you mentioned your DD. Know what you mean bout being stiff tho, my leg hasn’t been quite the same since the operation. Guess its still healing tho. Sounds like your in awful pain atm hun, all I can say is we are all here, and keep going. x


DD, hi, just wanna give ya a hug , heres hoping things will get better for you and that your daughter will get the help she needs, but make sure you don’t neglect you. You give good advise yourself hun, and are wise with your words x


LRS, hi hun, how many exams to go now? And how you feelin about them? Not long and you will see your GF, or should that be fiancé? Lol, Good luck with all the ones you have left, and well done on keeping of the drink, I can understand your frustration at your dad but just think when you finished the exams you can go out an celebrate :T x


Tulip, hello, how are you? You sound like you’ve been busy lately? Which is good, I need to keep busy atm too take care x


Karrie, hello, and how are you today? x


SF, hi hun, I just want you to know I understand what you mean hun. Feelin like you cant go on is one of the drawbacks of depression, it eats you up
, confuses you and makes you feel like a small piece of !!!!. But hun your non of these, you’re a precious individual, with soo much talent and enthusiasm. Never feel you are being selfish hun just cause there are others going through things, it doesn’t mean what you are feelin isn’t as important. You are important! We are all just unique individuals. How are your scares now? And have you now finished your 2nd year of uni? I know my brother comes home in a few weeks which i cant wait for. x


MC, Hi hun, just want you to know im here if ya need me, know your not doing soo well atm, so big hugs.
x


Gillette you show soo much compassion to all of us, your such a special badger, and I hope you know this x


Andipandi, hello, I have been reading your posts, and was sorry to hear about your DD hun. Anorexia is a horrible illness. And I agree shouldn’t matter what size people are, I used to be a size 10/8, now im a 14 with the tablets ive been on they make me put on weight. Wouldn’t get to me soo much but my mum makes comments ‘oo your fat, your putting on weight’. I hope your daughter and you will be ok tho, x

To everyone else blinky, stenny, carol, cb2, lewt, ltd, et all Much love and huggles



xxx

daisy_doughnut_2

rose07 wrote: »

Hi DD

How are you?



Oh hun, just want to give you a big hug. She will always be your little girl, how old is she?
Do not blame yourself, you are not to blame, your post shows how much you care for your daughter, you are taking the right steps in making sure she is ok. Just make sure you have support too, as it can get harder.

Keep going

we are all here for you

xxx

thanks so much she is 13
just decided to book a holiday for us all in september
she is really excited had a little money put by an well its for a rainy day and at the moment it feels rainy all the time so to hell with it
just found one for 340 half board for all of us looks like a really good hotel as well
been out most of the day to the flea markets an charity shops got some good bargins to
DD seems ok she just gone to her friends for a few hours
dont feel the need to cry over spilt milk anymore feeling stronger
plus we have a wedding to go to on saturday so were all looking forward to that
but why is it so hard to clean when your down or am i now looking for an excuse for me being lazy an the cooker looking like the remains of a sunday roast...lol

hope everyone had a good day whatever you did

take care

DD x

slowlyfading

rose07 wrote: »

SF, hi hun, I just want you to know I understand what you mean hun. Feelin like you cant go on is one of the drawbacks of depression, it eats you up , confuses you and makes you feel like a small piece of !!!!. But hun your non of these, you’re a precious individual, with soo much talent and enthusiasm. Never feel you are being selfish hun just cause there are others going through things, it doesn’t mean what you are feelin isn’t as important. You are important! We are all just unique individuals. How are your scares now? And have you now finished your 2nd year of uni? I know my brother comes home in a few weeks which i cant wait for. x

Thanks for your kind words. my scars aren't scars yet - they're still healing. I've finished for my second year now, I'm moving out in 2 weeks. its strange, uni is going so fast! x

Let_Robinson_Sing

Another exam down . Was nearly sick AGAIN this morning Felt better after the exams was over though. Now i've got 4 days of hard revision before HELL begin. 6 exams in 4 days. i was so happy to meet someone today why had more exams left.

4 exams down 7 to go

Karrie

Hi Rose

I am fine thanks for asking. Gonna drag my butt down to the swimming pool later. It's ladies night there. Then will be back to watch Britains Got Talent!!

How are you doing?

slowlyfading

Let_Robinson_Sing wrote: »

Another exam down . Was nearly sick AGAIN this morning Felt better after the exams was over though. Now i've got 4 days of hard revision before HELL begin. 6 exams in 4 days. i was so happy to meet someone today why had more exams left.

4 exams down 7 to go

-hugs- is the sickness brought on by nerves do you think? at least you've got another one done, not long left to go now! :j
sf x x

Let_Robinson_Sing

slowlyfading wrote: »

-hugs- is the sickness brought on by nerves do you think? at least you've got another one done, not long left to go now! :j
sf x x

Yes i think it is because when I think of my exam I think of the worst possible questions that could be on the paper. On my english exam i was praying to write a newspaper article and not to write about a radio play. one question was writing a radio play the other was writing a newspaper article so i drew a long sigh of relief.