Depression II

ilovegreatdanes

razorbladekisses,
like to echo your friends.since ive been here ,you have been really great to me and others and always try to help.please keep tailking to us and just take each day, each hour as it comes.you are a valuble member of this thread and always have good advice and good posts.we all have bad days and there are proffesionals to help.do something to take your mind off stuff,anything.....have a bath,read a mag article, rant on here..dance round your room....tell me im talking cr*p cos while youre typing,youre concentrating on the thread.
you always have someone to talk to cos you have loads of mates on here.everyone has wonderful qualities and there is no-one on earth like you, cos you are so special.
dont give up, please.i expect you to keep replying to my threads to tell me how much rubbish i write so ill be watching....
huge hugs and positive thoughts on way to you. xx

EthelBloggs

Karrie wrote: »

You live on the set of Eastenders don't you? Come on you can tell us.

Go for the JP thing. A knew someone that used to do that, and she loved it.

How are you today?

:rotfl::rotfl:Scumenders more like!

I've been thinking bout the JP thing for ages but everythings been too piggly wiggly with the rest of my time for me to be able to even think about starting. I'm waiting to hear from the Dean at Uni whether he's willing to let me come back and resume my degree.. if he says no then I shall apply for the magistrate thing. I just hate being at home with no other interests.. I think that's part of what causes my depression. I need a focus other than the kids/bf/me muvva, does that make sense?

Hows things with you Karrie?

G'mornin peeps :hello: Hope you're all having a good day and I'm hoping Gilly drives safe and Tiffy has a good time away, gawd we innarf gonna miss her aren't we?

Miroslav

gillette147 wrote: »

Miro
Yay bloke. Nice to hear from you. And you sound in good spirits. Come back and join in mate.

:T

Good spirits? Hmmm, maybe in short bursts :rotfl:

Hope you are well and hope you like your new TV :j

EthelBloggs

Miro!!!!! sooo lovely to see you xxxxx

Miroslav

Sazbo wrote: »

MIRO!!! :j :j :j :wave: :wave: :wave:

Love,
Sazzy xxxxxxxxx

:beer: :j :rotfl: :T :A

7-6 to me

8-6

9-6

I'll stop now



10-6...

Miroslav

geminilady wrote: »

Hi Miro:hello: :j :j Great to see you back!pull up a chair.I can understand you feeling other peoples depression can make yours worse it does happen sometimes.Personaly i find it helps to know there are people out there with much worse problems than me it stops me being self centered and just thinking of myself.Anyway post when you feel up to it you know you will always get a welcome here.If you read back through the thread you will see we do have lots of newbies and one or two don't post anymore, hopefuly it is because they are doing fine,fingers crossed.Hope you have a lovely birthday and don't forget to treat yourself you deserve it

:wave:

Hope you are well!

It kind of helps knowing people are in similar/worse situations, but not....I mean, I don't want people to be

I'm not going to read back too far, my patience isn't a whole new thread and loads of the last thread I'll get the drift of what's going on and I can ask questions

I'm not 31 (:eek: ) until tomorrow. Had my 1st and possible one of only 3, today.

I really don't care about Birthday's, I don't have anyone close enough to care about them, it's just another day

Karrie

EthelBloggs wrote: »

:rotfl::rotfl:Scumenders more like!

I've been thinking bout the JP thing for ages but everythings been too piggly wiggly with the rest of my time for me to be able to even think about starting. I'm waiting to hear from the Dean at Uni whether he's willing to let me come back and resume my degree.. if he says no then I shall apply for the magistrate thing. I just hate being at home with no other interests.. I think that's part of what causes my depression. I need a focus other than the kids/bf/me muvva, does that make sense?

Hows things with you Karrie?

Oh yeah that does make sense. I know exactly where you are coming from. My life revolves around my b/f, my ds and his 2 ds's. This week I have started running to help me focus on something else but I need more but I don't know what, does that make sense?

I hope Tiff enjoys her time away.

Miroslav

Tiff wrote: »

Hi Guys!:hello:
Tiffy dropping by. Things to say.

Firstly, to westclok, sandymogs, allie, hsmum and welcome home to miro, dmg24 and errata. You are all so very welcome here and I know the resident guardian angels will have already made you feel welcome.:T :A

I sat reading up on the posts just now and you know what I noticed? Even the new family members are giving advice and empathising with others! I am so honoured to be part of this team here and to watch the magic that each of you work.

I'm sorry I can't really get into everyone's issues - I've been sentenced to 14 days convalesence in Harrogate and I leave in the morning!:rolleyes:

It's my first holiday ever and at 42, even though I've lived abroad, it's a scary prospect for a recovering agoraphobic.
But I would like to leave some brief notes in case I can't get on here in the morning.;)

rbk - hunnie, you get your tail end to the drs! - you can't keep going on like this angel - you deserve so much more. You have to tell them you need more support hun. I'll miss you hun but you hang in there.

ethel - oh hun - they do it to you time and time again don't they. They make all the right noises and then do the opposite a few weeks later! I think as we once discussed angel, that in order for you to ensure your DDs safety, you may have to go the route of giving social services parental responsibility. It looks like the only way that they can keep throwing her back out while still very poorly. Don't forget to tell them your circumstances have changed now with your health and mobility angel. I think you'd make a great jp hun! I'll miss you hun.

sazzy - where would we be without you hun - keeping you in my thoughts - will miss you angel.

westclok - you shouldn't just consider what effect your health will have on your new boss angel - you should be considering your long term health and how work and stress will affect you. Don't push yourself too hard hun.

to those worried about health - please call your gp and get the help you deserve. Stay away from the dizzy water, keep taking your meds because if you didn't need them, you wouldn't have them!

to those worried about finances - CAB can negotiate with your debt people. You may be entitled to Disability Living Allowance if your every day life is affected by your mental ill health issues. That is the only criteria you have to prove and both CAB and DIAL can help with that - the forms are horrors because they look for certain words to be used.

to those who've reached their limit - no you haven't! There are always options guys and you are all to valuable to give up.
If I have to stay here and suffer, then so do you!:rolleyes:
Your mood will lift again and please don't ever make any decisions while you're feeling very low.

I've had a lot going on in my own life in the last 8 weeks and tbh, I couldn't get any lower than I've been recently - that's why it's been so hard to catch up with posts. Anyway guys, I'm fine , and maybe I'll get time to tell you in the morning.

I'm shaking in my fur about tomorrow but I need this break - even I can see that now.:rolleyes: Thank you all for your best wishes.:A :T

So, now you'll be Tiffless until 4th July (who's that cheering?!), when hopefully a better kind of Tiff will be back to join in.
Don't count on it though!;) By then you'll be saying, ''Tiff who?'':rotfl:

I'm thinking of you all and sincerely think that you're all amazing in how you help others when things are so hard for yourselves. :T :T :T

Off to bed then for the Tiffster!:rolleyes:
I'm halfway packed...



:rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:


I know it's only Yorkshire but I'm still a bit nervous about the travel arrangements...:eek:
At least I don't have to cat-ch a flight!:D (groan! :rolleyes:)



Just joking - being driven there.;)

Take care everyone - and play nicely!:rolleyes:
If I can find t'internet in Harrogate, I'll pop in and say hi.;)


Be proud and be kind to yourselves guys! :A :T


Huge Tiffy hugs to all!
Much Love,
Tiff xxx

Olé Olé, it's a Tiffy holiday.

Have a nice one :T

Miroslav

razorbladekisses wrote: »

:hello: Miroslav, HAPPY BIRTHDAY for later this week. Any plans? Whatever you do I hope that you have a good day.

AFAIK feelinggood isn't coming back to MSE I haven't heard from her in ages.

We've got lots of new posters

CCStar no longer posts on this thread which is a shame. However, I think she makes the odd post on other parts of the forum.

Thanks.....it's tomorrow...no real plans...may pop into town with flatmate if she bothers to get out of bed. Wish I had someone to properly share it with, but I don't

Shame feelinggood isn't around anymore

CCStar was saying she was leaving a couple of months ago when I was last here.

Hello new posters........i'm an old poster........but as I am back after a few months proper posting.......does that me a new old poster.........an old new poster.......or........

Hope you are well RBK :wave:

Miroslav

EthelBloggs wrote: »

Miro!!!!! sooo lovely to see you xxxxx

:j Ethel...

What's this I hear about you and a maintenance man?!?!