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  • fay66
    fay66 Posts: 744 Forumite
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    Oh dear SA,, your a busy lady , at least you have some wind down time x
    Debt £10k , HMRC £3K old debt £4k Jan 2021
    Had biatric surgery was 135k 2016 now 97kilo 22.1.20 up to 106 kilo 12.1.21
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  • Im so sorry you’re feeling alone SA - it must be so difficult for you at times and it’s great that you and lucky can support one another.

    I think we tend to be rather lighthearted on here about Mr SA sometimes - mAinly to try and cheer you up a bit as you do so much and are an absolute rock. It’s easy to forget sometimes that he is disabled and his cantankerousness stems from that. I certainly don’t know if I could cope like you do under the circumstances. You have my undying admiration.

    SSG x
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  • Sun_Addict wrote: »

    Then he reminded me that he still wants the bootee slippers and when am I picking them up. Not gone that blank then.

    :rotfl::rotfl: that tickled me. Bless you... (both) xx
  • Im so sorry you’re feeling alone SA - it must be so difficult for you at times and it’s great that you and lucky can support one another.

    I think we tend to be rather lighthearted on here about Mr SA sometimes - mAinly to try and cheer you up a bit as you do so much and are an absolute rock. It’s easy to forget sometimes that he is disabled and his cantankerousness stems from that. I certainly don’t know if I could cope like you do under the circumstances. You have my undying admiration.

    SSG x

    I can't say anything better than this but I agree 100% with SSG.
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  • fay66
    fay66 Posts: 744 Forumite
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    Hey SA we are all here, and if you catch ET regular pop in for a coffee and a chat x
    Debt £10k , HMRC £3K old debt £4k Jan 2021
    Had biatric surgery was 135k 2016 now 97kilo 22.1.20 up to 106 kilo 12.1.21
    Travel plans New York 2021 New year cancelled due to covid
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,033 Forumite
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    Thanks folks :)

    He asked me to make sure he was awake before I left for work this morning as the episode scared him. He seemed ok but rang me at work to ask what day it was.

    We've moved all the furniture from our room into DD's room. OMG the mess! Will be so glad when this week is over, really fed up of the mess now.

    So it's back to sleeping on the mattress tonight. Mr SA will have to move it in the morning, not sure how but he's refused to sleep on the sofa which would've been easier in the long run.

    Went to the gym at lunchtime and today has been NSD 2.
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • beanielou
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    So carpet fitter the morra?
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  • fay66
    fay66 Posts: 744 Forumite
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    I know how you feel SA , Ive had to empty my double room, and wardrobes ready for the lodger , my stuff was piled high, finally sorted but took a few days
    Debt £10k , HMRC £3K old debt £4k Jan 2021
    Had biatric surgery was 135k 2016 now 97kilo 22.1.20 up to 106 kilo 12.1.21
    Travel plans New York 2021 New year cancelled due to covid
  • Sun_Addict
    Sun_Addict Posts: 24,033 Forumite
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    Carpets being fitted on stairs, hall and our room tomorrow, then DD's room Wednesday. Not heard anything from them since they rang to confirm the dates so assuming it's all systems go.

    DD is going to sleep on the sofa tomorrow night so her bed can go in our room. Pity Mr SA isn't so sensible, one night wouldn't hurt, he just won't put himself out.

    Mr SA has just reminded me yet again about the bootee slippers. He's not going to forget them is he?
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • amber03
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    Your house will be smelling of new carpet for the next week or so, love that smell.xx
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