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wwyd? kids in a seperate apartment?
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I've done interconnecting rooms, with young teenage children, in several countries. I've always had to organise it directly with the hotel. For the Accor group --- Ibis, Mercure, etc --- not even their own website does it, you still have to talk directly to the hotel even if you're booking without using an agency. I've also done "room a couple of doors down the corridor". But although I'm normally pretty casual and non-paranoid about safety, I would be very reluctant to have them more than a room or two away, because I've been in hotel fire evacuations (mercifully, false alarms).0
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Some people seem overly paranoid - my kids have been on school trips at age 12 where they shared rooms, 3 of them to a room, nobody cared how far away in the hotel the teachers' rooms were
Hotels will usually have a phone where you can phone free between rooms, also they might have interconnecting rooms, or if not at least try to put you together. But I certainly wouldn't lose any sleep over it, provided all the kids are happy with the arrangement. Worst case - have an adult in each room, but doubt anyone would like that arrangement.0 -
Thanks for that I will look into villa's and interconnecting rooms and I will phone some of the hotels I'm looking at, I'm looking at all inclusive because I have a budget in mind, this being 2k for all of us for a week, I know self catering is £500 cheaper and we probably wouldn't spend that If I made alot of the meals myself, but I cook for a living and would quite like a week of doing nothing, especially not having to wash pots :-)
I like the baby monitor idea, and we have stopped in a hotel where there was a fire, thankfully only a small fire, we had interconnecting rooms and the kids had legged it before we even got out of bed!!0 -
I did this in the past when the oldest was 13, no problem0
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Even if you eat out most nights, perhaps just making butties for lunch and cereals for breakfast, it should be under £500. Though perhaps not much under.Thanks for that I will look into villa's and interconnecting rooms and I will phone some of the hotels I'm looking at, I'm looking at all inclusive because I have a budget in mind, this being 2k for all of us for a week, I know self catering is £500 cheaper and we probably wouldn't spend that If I made alot of the meals myself, but I cook for a living and would quite like a week of doing nothing, especially not having to wash pots :-)
:rotfl:yes, it's the adults who are more likely to sleep though a fire alarm, particularly if they've had a sangria or 2.I like the baby monitor idea, and we have stopped in a hotel where there was a fire, thankfully only a small fire, we had interconnecting rooms and the kids had legged it before we even got out of bed!!0 -
I wouldn't. Not because I'm paranoid for their safety, I just don't think it's fair in the 14yo to leave her in charge of the younger two every night.
At a push, if there were no other options, I would have the 11 and 14yo together and the 7yo with parents.Accept your past without regret, handle your present with confidence and face your future without fear0 -
If I were you phone the hotel and request rooms next to each other - ask if its possible.
If you are prepared to have everyone in one room (appreciate you might not be) Italy is a great country for piling in as many beds as possible into one room. Sometimes the kids beds are in the room but around the corner behind a wall.
the other alternative is not to book a hotel but to book a mobile home or an apartment.0 -
I agreeI wouldn't risk it and I'm probably one of the most relaxed parents ever.
What if the apartments are not together? What if there was some sort of drama - bad dream, cockroach in the room, burglary? Not worth it.
I'd opt for a cheaper holiday (caravan, camping) or find one where we would all be in the same building/unit or a guarantee of interconnecting rooms in a hotel or a suite with separate living arrangements.
Everything will be alright in the end so, if it’s not yet alright, it means it’s not yet the endQuidquid Latine dictum sit altum videtur0 -
totallybored wrote: »Share a room with the girls, leave the partner in a room on his own.
We had a 2 bed apartment and i still slept apart from my husband for the week lol I slept in with the girls and my husband slept with my boy, my mind works on overdrive and i feared about the kids sleeping alone!
I wouldn't risk it, but thats because i always see the worst in things rather than other outcomes. God help my girls when they are old enough to be able to go out on their tod!0 -
Id look at something like James Villas where you can get a 2/3 bed place. Or another villa site.0
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