Thursday 31st jan

halight

tina_malteser wrote: »

TimeToFaceTheMusic:eek: Really!!! That beats mine x

thankyou for your kind words everyone, so now when i say my son won't be home for tea and my diet is crap and im eating marmite on toast you know why:rotfl:
we should have a "cat out of the bag" thread
i must add i feel a weight off my shoulders:T
you are all lovely:A
Tina xx

hi Tina,

No one will judge you on this thread ,
Most people that post here have had a life full of crap,hard knocks and set backs to put up with all there lives.

You will be made to feel very welcome here any time to need to let of steam in a post.

rachel6188

Hi everyone , Tina, anything you need help and support with we are all here. If you are on benefits you can claim help with travel expenses to see him. heres a link i hope nobody minds http://www.offendersfamilieshelpline.org/index.php/help-with-the-cost-of-prison-visits/.
Lonewolf. Its so hard to cope. Im sick of the constant pain with no break that seems to be getting worse and to be honest the stress along with the crap from the DLA means im really not coping with it. OH wants me to get legal advice, not sure if it would help anybody know.
OS wise just been sitting sorting stuff around me (paperwork etc) as there isnt alot that needs doing. Hope everybody is well. Hugs and love to all especially those going through a hard time. xxxxxxxxxx

Julie67

No judgement Tina, we are all just bumbling along doing the best we can.
I must say I feel better having written down my debt, even though I am totally ashamed.
Spent the day writing to creditors and getting my info together for StepChange. Now have a stiff neck so going to have a bath and relax.
DG thanks for the advice.mi did a lot of research before going with then. They are a charity and don't charge any fees.
I feel I am going to be a regular poster on the DMP support thread:)

System

halight

rachel6188 wrote: »

Hi everyone , Tina, anything you need help and support with we are all here. If you are on benefits you can claim help with travel expenses to see him. heres a link i hope nobody minds http://www.offendersfamilieshelpline.org/index.php/help-with-the-cost-of-prison-visits/.
Lonewolf. Its so hard to cope. Im sick of the constant pain with no break that seems to be getting worse and to be honest the stress along with the crap from the DLA means im really not coping with it. OH wants me to get legal advice, not sure if it would help anybody know.
OS wise just been sitting sorting stuff around me (paperwork etc) as there isnt alot that needs doing. Hope everybody is well. Hugs and love to all especially those going through a hard time. xxxxxxxxxx

That Link looks very useful,

LameWolf

Julie67 wrote: »

I must say I feel better having written down my debt, even though I am totally ashamed.

The only time to be ashamed would be if you shoved your head deep into the sand and went into stubborn denial.

What is, is. What matters is what you do next.;)

One of the Flyladies has the tag line "Proud to be dealing with my debts" - I don't know if that's one that many use on the DFW board, or if it's her own, but it sounds like a good'un to me.:o

I have my own bit of "shame" of a totally different variety but may give you all a laugh; the Dys0n wasn't picking up as well as it should, so I had it upside down.... and removed an embarrassingly large pile of hair from round the brushes.:whistle: Long, red hair.:whistle::whistle: As in waist-length.....:whistle::whistle::whistle:

MadelinesMum

Afternoon all,
After the hectic school / nursery run this morning I managed to finish the last coat of paint on Evan's chair I bought from a charity shop yesterday. I still have the kitchen to finish (put on hold because of the chair, lol)
I thought my car tax was due, so looked for the reminder which I couldn't find. Checked the car and it runs out the end of Feb - derrrr!


Still trying to decide what to cook for tea tonight - probably something from the freezer

bargainbird

Thanks for the wishes.

Went out with houndettes and got smoothered so bathed allnfour when We got ome :eek:, then wipped round the house all done nw....have booked tickets tonse chas n dave in march......:Dcant wait for that a night out just what the doctor ordered.

Tm - haven't read back but woeva thebreason I don't judge either......life itself it more important xx

Hardup_Hester

Evening all
My cat's never been in the bag, my ex & I split over his insistance that we went wife swapping!
Home from work, but not for long, go to go back at 6:30 for a couple of hours, it could be fun, the person I'm working with was very rude to me earlier, I may choose to retaliate at the most inconvenient time, lol.
Hugs to all, especialy those with the BD.
Hester

halight

Hardup_Hester wrote: »

Evening all
My cat's never been in the bag, my ex & I split over his insistance that we went wife swapping!
Home from work, but not for long, go to go back at 6:30 for a couple of hours, it could be fun, the person I'm working with was very rude to me earlier, I may choose to retaliate at the most inconvenient time, lol.
Hugs to all, especialy those with the BD.
Hester

Hester, The cat is out the bag now as I never knew that,

Maybe you should have gone, Someone might have took him off your hands, Then you would have been shot of him sooner