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  • soolin
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    Quinny wrote: »
    Which is still cash.

    It would still need to clear through a bank though if it is crossed, it cannot be cashed at a post office.
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  • theonlywayisup
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    Quinny wrote: »
    Which is still cash.

    No, cash is cash.

    A PO which is crossed isn't of any value until it has been in the bank for 6 days.
  • Postal orders are great! Uncrossed is best so you can cash it immediately at the Post Office but they are risky to send in the post because if it is intercepted it can be cashed by anyone. Saying that, I've never had one go missing and I've received a fair few now. Crossed is safer but then it has to be paid into the named person's bank account and you have to wait for clearance. I only accept Paypal, Postal Orders(preferably uncrossed) or Cash on Collection. I don't do cheques anymore because of the delay involved in waiting for clearance.
  • mig1989
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    thanks for all your replies. I wasnt exactly sure how they worked as usually just work paypal, i did wonder why she myabe didnt have her own paypal or chequebook but if it can be cashed to me then sounds safe enough. I was sending recorded delivery as its jewellery anyway.
  • Goldiegirl
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    Personally I think that is a little bit callous. They're not asking for a discount, or something for nothing.

    The potential buyer has just sent a request to inquire if a form of payment would be acceptable. It's not asking for pity, but the good nature of the seller. Hopefully the seller see's that a postal order has benefits over something like paypal, as there are no charges to receive or cash.

    If she'd just asked if she could send a PO, I would say yes, no problem.

    There's just no need for her to tell the seller about events in her life. It's just too much, IMO
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  • mig1989 wrote: »
    I was sending recorded delivery as its jewellery anyway.

    Just in case you did not know, recorded delivery does not insure jewellery for loss. You would need to use special delivery.
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  • pulliptears
    pulliptears Posts: 14,583 Forumite
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    edited 16 January 2013 at 7:18PM
    Something does seem completely off with this, despite the fact a postal order is relatively risk free.

    Maybe I've become cynical in my old age.
  • fto
    fto Posts: 588 Forumite
    I remember when most buyers sent postal orders.
    Much better than paypal for the seller.
  • mig1989
    mig1989 Posts: 50 Forumite
    haven't sold jewellery before so wasn't aware of this. is this still the case if its below the £46 compensation limit?
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