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exasperation with friend?

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  • Spendless
    Spendless Posts: 25,155 Forumite
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    red_devil wrote: »
    i think this person is like this with a few others as well.

    what is a personality trait?
    Where someone by their own nature is a worrier, or analysis everything, or has a quick temper or is oblivious to good time-keeping, or is chatty, sunny natured, naturally organised. Just anything that is part of you/your personality. If you are a stickler for rules, regulations and prompt time keeping then someone who isn't may get on your wick.
  • Bufger
    Bufger Posts: 1,857 Forumite
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    If you see her once per year on her terms and she doesnt respond to calls or messages....... shes not really a friend.

    The text you got for New Year was most likely to all of the contacts on her phone.

    She may not want you as a friend but she is certainly not worth chasing. Dont worry about it, move on and find a new friend. Dont instigate any contact and see how long it is until she bothers,.
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  • antw23uk
    antw23uk Posts: 510 Forumite
    Sounds like she doesnt actually want you as a friend .. sorry to sound harsh.

    Drop kick her to the side and move on. If she contacts you again and wants to meet up then fine .. If not then you havent lost any sleep over it.

    “Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option.”
    Ant. :cool:
  • Hezzawithkids
    Hezzawithkids Posts: 3,018 Forumite
    This ^^^^^^
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  • red_devil
    red_devil Posts: 10,793 Forumite
    just had a hello on social media and been informed that the phone is cut off due to not being able to pay the bill so that is why she didnt phone back the other day.
    :footie:
  • red_devil
    red_devil Posts: 10,793 Forumite
    hard work lol;)
    :footie:
  • Janey1968
    Janey1968 Posts: 27 Forumite
    You dont have her address??
    Not a friend.....just a bod you know in passing.
  • red_devil
    red_devil Posts: 10,793 Forumite
    Janey1968 wrote: »
    You dont have her address??
    Not a friend.....just a bod you know in passing.

    she recently moved.
    :footie:
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