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School slip up- What would you do?

The school my child goes to send out text messages instead of written not es for events/dates/notices ect.

Now they have made a big mistake- one of the mums owed quite a large sum in dinner money and they have sent her a text asking her to come in and pay it. But, they have mistakenly sent it to all parents and so a lotof the other children now know that the mum owes this money.

If it were you, how would you react?
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  • Wilma33
    Wilma33 Posts: 681 Forumite
    Delete the text and don't mention it to your children. Simple :)
  • If I were who? If I was the mother who owed money I'd be annoyed and embarassed but I wouln't make a complaint unless I could lay my hand on my heart and say I'd never clicked 'Reply to All' and regretted it. If I were the admin person responsible I'd be embarassed, would apologise to the mother concerned and maybe see if anything to could be done to ensure that All Users texts needed a second look before they were sent. If I were anyone else I might make a joke about it but it's not really *that* big a deal is it?
  • swingaloo
    swingaloo Posts: 3,628 Forumite
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    I dont suppose it is in the great scheme of things, its just that my nephew has just told me that a lot of children at school are teasing the child in question.

    But, apparently the mother in question is on the war path
  • Shame on whatever parent (s) told their children.

    Mistakes happen - but the parents should have had the maturity to delete the message with no comment
  • sweetme
    sweetme Posts: 13,829 Forumite
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    This happened with the school my son attends. A text asking the whereabouts of a boy who lives in my street, he had been absent for a while, and saying that they were concerned as they'd attended his home a number of times went out as a group text. I just deleted it. Can imagine the mother of the child concerned being quite angry though.
  • CH27
    CH27 Posts: 5,531 Forumite
    Shame on whatever parent (s) told their children.

    Mistakes happen - but the parents should have had the maturity to delete the message with no comment

    Totally agree.
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  • Valli
    Valli Posts: 25,593 Forumite
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    edited 15 December 2012 at 3:54PM
    Two issues - firstly yes the parents who received the message in error should have deleted it and said nothing. (as other posters have said)

    BUT

    The school has probably breached the Data Protection Act as they have given out sensitive/confidential information.
    I would be very annoyed had I been that mum!
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
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  • swingaloo wrote: »
    The school my child goes to send out text messages instead of written not es for events/dates/notices ect.

    How is that message an event/date/notice?
    If you haven't got it - please don't flaunt it. TIA.
  • mrcow
    mrcow Posts: 15,170 Forumite
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    How is saying that someone owes some dinner money giving out "senstive/confidential" information?
    "One day I realised that when you are lying in your grave, it's no good saying, "I was too shy, too frightened."
    Because by then you've blown your chances. That's it."
  • inkie
    inkie Posts: 2,609 Forumite
    Mortgage-free Glee!
    Because it relates to their finances?
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