ten month split

Caroline_a

You appear to have blamed the mother for this. If you can't see that it probably wasn't her fault at all, and she was trying to make the best of a dreadful situation when she probably most needed your support, then you're certainly the wrong man for her.

Find someone with no baggage or history.

thebull

May I say I get the feeling that a few of you who have replied to my request for advice appear to very hurt and angry individuals who I am only too pleased to not know on a personal level.
You have no idea of the relationship I had with the other person involved ,other than the small glimpse I have told you .
As I say advice was wanted NOT opinion

ktb

thebull wrote: »

ktb may I suggest that you read and digest my post before having a go at me when you re read my post you will see I asked for advice NOT opinion .I hope you don't mind me pointing your mistake out .

.... I digested your post fully & gave 'advice' in my first post........ leave her alone........ to which you retorted;

thebull wrote: »

Must just be me that thinks its not good to have a 27 year old man impregnate a 15year old girl . Strange world eh

.... if this is not canvassing opinion, I don't know what is!?

Make your mind up!

Sambucus_Nigra

thebull wrote: »

May I say I get the feeling that a few of you who have replied to my request for advice appear to very hurt and angry individuals who I am only too pleased to not know on a personal level.
You have no idea of the relationship I had with the other person involved ,other than the small glimpse I have told you .
As I say advice was wanted NOT opinion

You tell us what advice you are looking for and I'm sure someone can tell it straight back to you.

zzzLazyDaisy

thebull wrote: »

ktb may I suggest that you read and digest my post before having a go at me .
when you re read my post you will see I asked for advice NOT opinion .I hope you don't mind me pointing your mistake out .

Given that any advice is inevitably going to be a reflection of the poster's opinion, it is difficult to distinguish between the two.

jaqui59

Could you ever accept that apart from your girlfriend it would now also be a 15 year old, a little baby and possibly her boyfriend.

If you cannot live with that, then definitely don't make contact.

System

After 10 months? I'd tell you to sling your hook.

Oh and thats not opinion its advice.... leave well alone.

27col

You sound like a self opinionated control freak, if you don't mind me saying so, and even if you do mind.
By the way, that is opinion and not advice

nathand_2

Hopefully any contact you make is met with a response telling you where to go!

Move on (this part is advice ). With any luck she already has.

365days

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No probably not wise, but nor was splitting up by text and wrecking your phone.

Should you move on? Re-phrase that as Can I move on?

Then you have your answer as to whether you should re contact or not. Then it is up to her whether she tells you to !!!! off or welcomes you back with open arms.