Time to start again

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Hope your mum is back to full health soon

I keep telling my mum she has no worries about falling, she has a glare that would melt frost but we do all have to look out for each other in this weather!

Glad you had a fun day with your daughter and I think it's ace that you and her mum can be friends - I have an ex that is like my brother!

Take care!

HBS x

happy_daddy_2

Well so far today i haven not spent any money its been lovely my sister has been over for a few hours with her 2 children (8months) and (4)years i love been a uncle, For dinner i prepared a prawn layered salad with pasta yum :O) i have done some tidying up and gone to the tip well i am off now to go and see mum. have a great afternoon :)x

happy_daddy_2

Well i learned something when i visited my mum in hospital today and i do have to laugh, over the years i cannot imagine how much i have spent on hospital car parks i parked in the next street down, a couple of minutes walk away it saved us two pound fifty, when i returned back from the hospital i had a lovely sandwich for my tea as this evening it was date night for me i am so looking forward to it with my ladyfriend i am certain this is the woman for me Well i returned back to the hospital this evening before going on my date, i am so pleased that i was told that mum is well enough to be released tomorrow so happy about this Well my date was awesome enjoyed my time relaxing chatting and eating and spent 21.50 treated myself a little on dinner drinks and pudding my date has promised shes going to pay next time well back to work tomorrow 12 hour shift hopefully i am going to do some ebaying tomorrow i have a lot of stuff now that i have to sell

HeadAboveWater

Aw so excited for you!! Glad your dating has been going well! Hope things work out for you both

Great news about your mum too!

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I love reading your posts, they're always so upbeat!

Great news about your mum and really happy your date went well!

HBS x

unoriginal_uk

Just started reading your thread happy daddy, good luck for getting your finances sorted and thank you for inspiring me to always see the positive in life I hope you don't mind if I subscribe to your thread so I can follow your journey

unoriginal_uk

Oh and I forgot to add that it sounds like your daughter is extremely lucky to have a dad like you

kelpie35

So pleased about the news your Mum is getting home :j

Very excited for you about your date

happy_daddy_2

Aww Thanks guys i really do appreciate positive comments and feedback It helps me on my debt free journey and also been a carer in and out of work things can be a little stressful but i believe however hard things get in life there is a way out and it can be sorted so things really arent that bad and i just look at what i have gained through the day however small or big i am truly thankful for everything.
In the past i suffered with very bad bullying and Depression, with stress i have ten principles that helps me beat it
# dance it out
# go for a walk
#Talk about it
#breathe
#go to bed early
#focus on what you can control
#Reminiscence about good times
#ask for a hug
#look for opportunities in lifes challenges

Well today started from 7am starting work at 8am on a 12 hour shift i have really had a lovely day i have signed up for 2 courses and currently on studying another course aswell so i am going to be quite busy on that front my dinner and based on weight watchers chicken curry and chicken hotpot, i was so impressed with myself i was asked to do a food run for the staff breaks to Mcdonalds its been a big problem in the past me buying things there but i resisted temptation i bought nothing i guess it was my good deed for the day Anyway 8pm came it was lovely to get back home to see mum, as a family we are all so close i have so much love and respect for mum and dad they have had their tears in the past i lost my brother and sister at a young age and to see how my parents supported each other and came through it me, i will always support them with everything they do xx My plans to do ebay tonight have been shelved i am tired, it can wait since starting my debt journey i have saved in the region of 6 hundred pound which i am delighted about by generally watching my money how i spend it a little bit of overtime and the help and support from family For me the problem seems to be time management i have lots of good ideas but the situation with been a carer for my parents providing good family time for my daughter on a weekend and working long hours i just sometimes feel i cannot fulfil what i want i will get there though the best feeling in the world today is having a non spend day awesome i am well happy, well i am back to work tomorrow and then its daughter time yay bring it on for a fun weekend ahead. Good night everyone hope your days been good to you x

littleangels3

Not been on here for ages but gona get back on track this year, what a lovely thread so far you sound like a lovely dad, so hands on i wish my dh was,
Anyway hope you dont mind but im going to subscribe @ you can amaze me at how well your doing with your debt busting @ hope the romance is going well,