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Can a mother take a child abroad to live without the fathers consent?

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  • Ms_Chocaholic
    Ms_Chocaholic Posts: 12,777 Forumite
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    Years ago children were added to their mother's passports but children now have to get a passport in their own right.
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  • Farside
    Farside Posts: 313 Forumite
    Look here, click the link under the title "Who's a Member", there's a full list of all Children's Solicitors in England

    lawsociety.org.uk/accreditation/specialist-schemes/children-law

    Thanks Ms Chocaholic :T
  • Valli
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    jamespir wrote: »
    would a 4 month old need one ??? or could it go on the mothers
    Yes he would. Hence my question.
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
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  • Ellie83
    Ellie83 Posts: 525 Forumite
    jamespir wrote: »
    would a 4 month old need one ??? or could it go on the mothers

    Children need their own passport now, according to Direct Gov.

    http://www.direct.gov.uk/en/TravelAndTransport/Passports/Applyingforaneworrenewedchildpassport/DG_174105
  • Farside
    Farside Posts: 313 Forumite
    Valli wrote: »
    Most solicitors offer a free half-hour initial consultation. That can be used to find a solicitor with whom you feel you can work.

    Has the child got a passport?

    If she is already talking about going you need to act quickly - working on this while they are in the UK will be far simpler than attempting to bring him back once he has gone.

    No my son does not have a passport yet, He'd need to get one if he was to go with his mum. Luckily he can not go on her passport, they changed this rule a while back i think. So he'd defo have to get his own.
  • Valli
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    Farside wrote: »
    No my son does not have a passport yet, He'd need to get one if he was to go with him mum. Luckily he can not go on her passport, they changed this rule a while back i think. So he'd defo have to get his own.


    That's good as it means she can't suddenly up and go (I hope...assuming passport control do their job).

    If she's unhappy with living here, and not with you can she not make contact with other Thai nationals - might help her to settle?
    Don't put it DOWN; put it AWAY
    "I would like more sisters, that the taking out of one, might not leave such stillness" Emily Dickinson
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    Thank you Honey Bear
  • Ms_Chocaholic
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    If you wish to take Court action to prevent your son being removed from the UK, a Prohibited Steps Order is the type of order you would apply for. It may be useful to Google information about this before going to see a solicitor, there's some info here

    http://www.family-law-solicitors.com/children/prohibited-steps-orders/
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  • Ms_Chocaholic
    Ms_Chocaholic Posts: 12,777 Forumite
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    There's also some information here about alerting the Passport Office if you plan to get the Order
    http://www.justice.gov.uk/protecting-the-vulnerable/official-solicitor/international-child-abduction-and-contact-unit/prevention
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    You can please some of the people some of the time, all of the people some of the time, some of the people all of the time but you can never please all of the people all of the time
  • Farside
    Farside Posts: 313 Forumite
    Valli wrote: »
    That's good as it means she can't suddenly up and go (I hope...assuming passport control do their job).

    If she's unhappy with living here, and not with you can she not make contact with other Thai nationals - might help her to settle?

    We can't find any, We both looked here and online but we live in a small village, There are no thai people anywhere near us, She's been here since January 2009 so settling in shouldn't really be an issue now i'd have thought.
  • balletshoes
    balletshoes Posts: 16,610 Forumite
    edited 6 October 2012 at 9:59PM
    Farside wrote: »
    We can't find any, We both looked here and online but we live in a small village, There are no thai people anywhere near us, She's been here since January 2009 so settling in shouldn't really be an issue now i'd have thought.

    I don't think she feels settled if she wants to go back to Thailand to live. It can take a lot longer than a few years to feel at home in a foreign (to her) country.

    I hope you manage to sort things out regarding ensuring your son stays in the UK with you if thats whats best for him.
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