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Should have followed my gut feeling!!
chemical.galaxy
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A buyer asked me for a discount on an item, before I had a chance to answer she went ahead and bought it anyway.
I almost sent it recorded delivery after seeing her patchy feedback... but I didnt duh
Anyway it was sent 1st class on Tuesday and just got a 'where is my item' email. I am pretty sure she is going to say it has not arrived.
Obviously will refund if it 'has not arrived' next week but I don't believe her.
I already left her feedback, but would you leave follow up feedback along the lines of item lost in post, full refund given?
I am a bit worried about retaliation but I would like to warn other sellers!
I almost sent it recorded delivery after seeing her patchy feedback... but I didnt duh
Anyway it was sent 1st class on Tuesday and just got a 'where is my item' email. I am pretty sure she is going to say it has not arrived.
Obviously will refund if it 'has not arrived' next week but I don't believe her.
I already left her feedback, but would you leave follow up feedback along the lines of item lost in post, full refund given?
I am a bit worried about retaliation but I would like to warn other sellers!
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You could always word it like "very understanding buyer,. Accepted full refund when royal mail lost parcel, once again apologies for this".0
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Good wording, alfiesmum.
OP, I agree that the feedback should mention that the transaction was completed by way of a refund after the package was lost.
Even if it wasn't sent recorded you can still claim from Royal Mail, can't you?0 -
JimmyTheWig wrote: »Good wording, alfiesmum.
OP, I agree that the feedback should mention that the transaction was completed by way of a refund after the package was lost.
Even if it wasn't sent recorded you can still claim from Royal Mail, can't you?
Yes I will claim - I just hate a dishonest Ebayer!
I have only had one loss since April so doing well!0 -
Always trust your gut instinct.
Had one a while ago who had too many NPB strikes, in a weak moment I relented & let him make the purchase.
He paid straight away & then I was bombarded with emails ref delivery. Ended up with a neutral for a 2 day delivery for my trouble, not surprisingly he is permanantly on the blocked buyer list!0 -
I have had this recently too, contacted me after a week for a second class packet when they live on a UK island - alarm bells rang when they said they hadn't had a card (not yes l have checked with delivery office) and l expect a refund. Told her to wait a bit longer.I have had many Light Bulb Moments. The trouble is someone keeps turning the bulb off

1% over payments on cc 3.5/100 (March 2014)0 -
As I thought - buyer now demanding a refund as item was ordered for the weekend (posted 1st class on Tuesday).
I will refund her tonight and move on - is it worth leaving follow up feedback to my 'great buyer' feedback I left when I posted item?0 -
chemical.galaxy wrote: »I will refund her tonight and move on - is it worth leaving follow up feedback to my 'great buyer' feedback I left when I posted item?
I wouldn't - they might retaliate by leaving you a neg & trashing your stars.0 -
chemical.galaxy wrote: »A buyer asked me for a discount on an item, before I had a chance to answer she went ahead and bought it anyway.
I almost sent it recorded delivery after seeing her patchy feedback... but I didnt duh
Anyway it was sent 1st class on Tuesday and just got a 'where is my item' email. I am pretty sure she is going to say it has not arrived.
Obviously will refund if it 'has not arrived' next week but I don't believe her.
I already left her feedback, but would you leave follow up feedback along the lines of item lost in post, full refund given?
I am a bit worried about retaliation but I would like to warn other sellers!
Hi,
I received an item today that was sent 1st class on Monday so your buyer could be telling the truth.0 -
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