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Cohabiting with Ex & new Partner staying

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  • The flat is small and cosy at best with the two of us. We were first time buyers and location came before size of property sadly.

    I'll have to have a real think if I want to be in the flat when they are around, if all I can really do is make it difficult rather than preventing entry altogether.

    I'll get in touch with my Solicitor and see what should happen next.

    Thanks everyone.
  • cheepskate wrote: »
    When she brings the B/F over ask if you can join in and promptly undress all ready for action
    Alternatively sit on the sofa with a box of tissues by your side ;)
  • The flat is small and cosy at best with the two of us. We were first time buyers and location came before size of property sadly.

    I'll have to have a real think if I want to be in the flat when they are around, if all I can really do is make it difficult rather than preventing entry altogether.

    I'll get in touch with my Solicitor and see what should happen next.

    Thanks everyone.
    Poor choice of words!
  • custardy
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    What a cow
  • Errata
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    Man up and tell her to do one, she's either taking the Micky or treating you like a doormat - or both.
    .................:)....I'm smiling because I have no idea what's going on ...:)
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    keep posting Residential: loads of support, fun and friendship on MSE. :D
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  • If I were you I'd try to appeal to her better nature. Try explaining to her that having friends over is one thing, but does she really think it's appropriate to have her new fella staying over!?!?

    Why can't she stay at his? My gut feeling is it's because she's doing it on purpose to try and hurt you (I may be wrong).

    If you ask me you've dodged a bullet there fella, she sounds like a grade A !!!!!!
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